Working on Impulse Control
Thoughts for the Week:
We all feel good when we learn how
to stop ourselves from doing something we shouldn't do. Learning to manage our
feelings takes time. We all want things we can't have from time to time, but
for children, it can be especially frustrating to have those feelings. They
haven't yet learned how to manage their frustration or anger when they can't
have what they want or when they can't do what they want to do. Children need
the help of caring adults who will help them learn how to stop themselves by
setting clear limits for acceptable behavior while allowing children ways to
express their feelings by talking or playing about them.
-- Fred Rogers
Summary of the Week:
This week's theme of Go-Stop-Go is about impulse
control. Knowing when to stop and when to go deals with some of the most
essential things in childhood -- learning, getting along with others, toilet
training, and safety rules. There's a fire drill at a school and a visit
to a Fire Department where Mister Rogers meets caring fire fighters. Mister
Rogers shows a video of different kinds of fountains and shows how he turns the
water on and off in his bathroom. Author/illustrator Marc Brown shows how he draws
the "Arthur" character and introduces Mister Rogers to the teenager
who does the voice of "Arthur" on PBS.
In the Neighborhood of Make-Believe story, Lady
Elaine has trouble controlling her urge to squirt her Museum-Go-Round
hose. With the help of her friends, she finds that there are times when
it's okay to squirt the water and times when it's not okay -- times to go and
times to stop.