Some Times are for Hurrying Up -- Some Times are for Slowing Down
Thoughts for the Week:
We live in a society that seems so
rushed. Parents have often told us how hard it can be to take time to relax and
enjoy their children. They've also expressed concern about how they seem to be
hurrying all the time, that they have to hurry their children - get them up and
get them dressed, push them to eat faster, and move quickly through all the
day's activities. Parents worry about how all the rushing around affects their
children and themselves.
Because adults are often in such a hurry, it may seem easier to do things for
children rather than to give them time to do things for themselves. But it
takes time to learn, to think, and to practice the important skills that can
develop naturally during childhood. Whenever we do let children take their time
to do things, we're giving them support for learning and growing.
By letting children do things at their own pace as often as we can, we may also
find that we're making it easier for them to accept those times when they do
have to hurry. It can also help us adults to slow down and remember the most
important things in life.
-- Fred Rogers
Summary of the Week:
Today's fast-paced society could
easily lead a child to assume that always going fast -- when you're learning,
playing or doing family activities -- is what really matters. In these
programs, Mister Rogers shows how different things -- from feathers to cranes
to roller skates -- are meant to go at different speeds, helping children
understand that both Fast and Slow have important and necessary places in our
lives.
In the Neighborhood of
Make-Believe, the Trolley is speeding around, and everyone is trying to help
slow it down. The neighbors discover that doing something fast is not always
better, especially when they're trying to learn something new.