Exploring Feelings About Living and Dying
Thoughts for the Week:
Talking about "then" and
"now" can help children think about all the ways they've grown and
what they were like when they were younger. The day-by-day growing that
children experience often goes unnoticed, unless we take the chance to help
children see all the inside and outside ways they've grown.
Conversations about things that happened a while ago can also open the way for
talking about losses that children may have experienced, such as the death of a
pet or someone they knew. Such conversations give us a chance to help children
begin to understand one of the most difficult facts of life - that all living
things die. It's a fact that remains hard for many of us to face, no matter how
old we are. When a pet dies, the understanding of what death means will come
only little by little - as will a child's readiness to accept a replacement.
Children need a lot of help understanding death, and, like all of us, need time
to grieve.
-- Fred Rogers
Summary of the Week:
"Will my toy
truck ever die?" " When will I get to be a baby again?" "If I walk backward,
will I get to yesterday?" These questions let us know how much children
struggle to make sense of the world -- especially time, growing and death. In
this week of programs, Mister Rogers helps viewers with these concepts through
a trip to the past in Colonial Williamsburg, a visit with violinist Itzhak
Perlman who speaks about his past and his disability from childhood polio, and
Mr. McFeely's discovery of a dead bird.
In the
Neighborhood of Make-Believe Daniel Tiger is worried that his toy truck might
die, until he comes to understand that only living things die and that our good
feelings come from living life day by day.