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"I think developing at different speeds & times, (I have a VERY, VERY, small chest!)."
--Helpme!, 10

"Well today I went to the bathroom and when I saw something on my thing I was scared I told my friends and they all made fun of me I don't know how to tell my parents plz somebody help me."
--Anonymous, 11

"Dear PBS KIDS, I really want to use a tampon but I am scared to tell my mom I want one and I don't know what to do!"
--Sharon, 12

"My friend at summer camp had hers in the pool."
--Lexi, 9

"Erections because I'm in a swim team when I get in the water it's cold and that gives me an erection then everyone sees it and laughs."
--Esteban

"Anonymous: If a girl hasn't had her period for a while after it started that might happen when u first start. But it u started ur period less than a year ago, u could skip a few. Just talk 2 ur mom or doctor."
--Madi : -), 12

"CherryCheese, 10, just ask a question and I will try 2 help the best I can..."
--Madi : -), 12

"Mimi, 11, ok, ppl really, ur not any1 else! Ur u! I got my period when I was 10 and my mom got hers when she was 15! Maybe u will get urs when ur mom did, but u might not! Teachers aren't always right! I speak from EXPERIENCE! So listen 2 ur body, not ur moms, how many years have u had breasts, do u have discharge? just listen 2 urself. Sorry if this sounds mean, but I really want u gurls 2 understand!"
--Madi : -), 12

"Hair is fairly annoying I don't mind the pubic hair I have as it makes me feel older it's more the hair under my arms and legs that others see."
--Jenna, 10

"I haven't got my period yet but I'm waiting for it to happen should I wear a pad just in case." --Anonymous. Try wearing a pad only now and then and keep a pad, undies and pants in your bag just in case. Don't try a tampon till your period is a once a month thing. To tell when your period will steady out figure out when it began. If it began 10-11 years it'll take about 1-2 years to even out, 12-13 is 3-4 years and 13+ is 4 years+."
--D0t123, 11

"The word puberty just makes me laugh. We were doing the plant life cycle the other day and we got 2 fertilization and we couldn't stand. Miss was there going the word sex makes u laugh n then we all laughed. Sum1 came up 2 me and said "Sex" I was in tears so it's no big deal talk about it with sum1 u feel comfortable with. For m it's my Mom and my big sister!"
--Molly, 10

"The feminine issues. I deal with it by talking with some one."
--Melinda, 12

"I just got my period today and I feel good about it! I hardly got any pains and mine is really light. I just told my mom and she got me a pad and told me when to change it. It's pretty easy so far...But I got mine like 3 hours ago."
--Helen, 12

"How long will it take to grow a mustache if your are 9 years old."
--Kain, 9

"What age do girls usually begin needing to use deodorant."
--Anonymous

"Well star one way to get your "End of a sentence" is to not worry bout it if you do it will come later."
--A naruto fan gurl

"I mean like what is some signs your having your 'end of a sentence"."
--A smart gurl

"Maria: I have to disagree. You need to do something about puberty, don't ignore it. And for all you girls who have parents that won't listen, I have a tip. Talk to your school counselor. If u don't have one, talk to an older sister, an older friend, or even a close friend's mother. You'll feel uncomfortable at first, but they'll know what to do..."
--Taylor, 12

"Elias, 12: I know you're a guy, and I'm a girl, but if your, uh thing, starts hurting you need to either talk to a parent or doctor. Hope this helps..."
--Taylor, 12

"Miah: You are SO right, there is nothing you can do about it. You just need to go with the flow for a bit until others catch up to you. Meanwhile, carry around a pad or tampon, for secured safety, of coarse!"
--Taylor, 12

"Cherrycheese, 10: I'm sorry I can't email you. I'm not allowed to email strangers. I CAN however, keep writing to you through IML! : -) I'm really sorry that you can't shave yet, what you need to do is show your mom your legs. If she still disagrees, read THE CARE AND KEEPING OF YOU to learn how to shave. Then you can shave in the bath or shower. That's what I do. But, you SHOULD still have someone telling you that you ARE allowed to shave. Talk to your doctor at your next visit. Maybe they can have a word with your mom..."
--Taylor, 12

"Olivia: Breasts and breast buds probably shouldn't be considered "Sexy." They are a natural part of growing up. There's this girl in my social studies class named Nina, and she pulls her shirt down so guys can see her bra. They find it rather amusing. Once a boy touched her bra without asking, and it was on, and he got in big trouble. He SOOO deserved it, however..."
--Taylor, 12

"What is the sticky discharge in my underwear mean in puberty?"
--Katie, 10

"Hey Rebecca 13: I'm a little over weight as well and my breasts are a little bigger than they should be I am a 34A! And the bra I wear makes my breasts look bigger! AAAAAAAAHHHHHHHH!"
--Aoife:), 11

"I started a long time ago but I just started getting really hairy...I don't wanna be inappropriate but idk what to do...I'm scared to wear a bikini. My back. Butt. Arms. Legs. And bikini area is really hairy : (idk what to do..."
--UhOhhh

"Syd (12), if your pubic hair is already growing, expect your period to happen soon!"
--C_Angelie_S, 11

"Anonymous, it depends how long, actually. If you started having your period, you will have it at different, unexpected times. Like, one time it's too short between the first time you had your period and the second. Or it's too long. Until you've had your period for a while, you won't really know when to expect your period. Ask your school nurse! P. S. People! Stay in school! P. P. S. LOL."
--C_Angelie_S, 11

"SadCar (12), I know this teacher who says tampons are more comfortable than pads. I guess you have to get used to it, but when you do, it'll feel like it's not there. The V-opening-thingie between your legs (what's it called again? ) has the ability to stretch and go back to normal size, so it's safe to use a tampon because when the tampon absorbs the blood-thing or whatever, it'll be alright. And expect your period after/during? your pubic hair grows and when you have discharge! Ask your school nurse!"
--C_Angelie_S, 11

"We're going to see a movie about puberty at our school and it is torture! The girls watch the girls movie and the boys! But I'm not worried about that I'm worried about the boys watching the girl's movie! It's going to be hard to get through the year Ôcause there probably gonna tease us a lot. The boys don't have to worry that much. It's going to be pure horrible torture next year and the next year!"
--Aurin, 11

"Breasts are too big and my hair is too ugly."
--Renesha, 13

"The worst part is the cramping. Usually it hurts bad. Also, I'm usually in school."
--Michelle, 13

"The toughest part about going through puberty, I'd say, for me, was accepting that it was true. I read all about it, and I denied it, thinking it's not true, because I don't want it to be. And talking about it, I hate it when guys talk about it in front of me. I feel like screaming "Guys get it easy!" and there's so much, just getting into it all in my head, the shaving, the bras, the period, he zit, & everything. When it happened, I would look at little kids, and wish I were them to not have to go through puberty, and be young and carefree again."
--Emily, 12

"How old do you need to be, and how do you know."
--Sierra, 10

"I think we should evolve out of periods. I hate them. It's gross and you cant run/play. Plus ur "Stomach" kills! I don't have pms that bad though. No moodiness."
--Rose, 12

"Does everybody get it."
--Briana, 9

"Every boy I see is hot especially emo guys idk why though ps I'm in the 6th grade I may be 11 but that's ’Äòcause I was ready for school then."
--Paris, 11

"The toughest part I would say is the feelings that I as a girl get about things and how I make people mad at me and I didn't even mean it. And the periods ugh...Don't even get me started on those. DIFFICLUT!"
--Y would I tell u?, 13

"One of my testicles goes down like half an inch farther than the other should I be worried?"
--Jonathan2426, 12

"Everything has happened to me except I haven't got my period yet! I already have to wear a size b cup bra, I shave my legs, I have bad body odor down there and I have had discharge for 5 months! Is something wrong with me?"
--Jessica, 11

"Um this is for a IML person umm do you think we should have a section for boys to talk bout puberty and a section for gurls to talk about puberty?"
--Keonna

Message from IML: Hi Keonna! That's a good question. In the beginning we felt it was healthy for guys and girls to share their experiences together, especially since this is a totally anonymous board. But if everyone would rather have it be separated, then we can do that. If you want to cast a vote for having different boards, email us at itsmylife@pbs.org.

"OMG! This stinks my breasts are hurting way bad!"
--Daycee L, 12

"How come GAL lives have to be sooo hard?! And BOY lives DO NOT?! HU HU HU HU?!"
--Olga, 8

"Hey Vivian I have a guy teacher too. It makes you want to run out of the room ’Äòcause he know it's going and it's hard to ask stuff they should split us up in health on and guy don't need to pick on us. In a few years they'll like you. Hey did you watch ever changing for girls."
--Me, 11

"Rebecca you don't want breasts. I wear a b. It's no fun. if you want ’Äòem for a guy well if that's what they want they're jerks."
--Lil, 11

"Do you get fat at the beginning?"
--Me, 12

"Period."
--Jayme, 12

"The toughest part of going through puberty is when you get your period and you need stuff..."
--Destiny, 11

"I just got discharge and I just got a boat and we are going on it every day I am scared that I might have to use a tampon! I guess I will have to get used to it!"
--Katie1, 10

"Hi even though I am only 12 I would say I am fully developed. I wear a c cup bras and have fully grown pubic hair and my periods are regular but puberty does not finish until you're about 18."
--Amanda, 12

"What happens if a gurl has not had her period for a long time even though they had started."
--Anonymous

"I get hard a lot and I'm home schooled so no one really cares but they happen a lot."
--Caleb, 13

"Hello my breasts are developing and it's really painful is there anything I can do to make them feel better?"
--Emily, 11

"Makena, 11 u aren't ur sister. Ur urself. U'll get everything in ur own time. Not ur sisters."
--Madi : -), 12

"Taylor, 12 OMG! I LUV THE CARE AND KEEPING OF YOU! It is an awesome book and I think all girls should read it!"
--Madi : -), 12

"Charlotte R, 11 I'm sorry it's so hard for u. It happens at different times. Maybe this is a good thing ask ur friend more about periods, then when u get urs u'll feel better then u 2 can help the next and the next and the next!"
--Madi : -), 12

"What I do 4 cramps is I get in a warm bath it help relax you. And exercise. And placing a heating pad on your lower abdomen."
--Anonymous, 12

"Thank You Madi : -), 12, Taylor, 12 and D0t123, 11...I really didn't want to think that this would be happening now! 0_0 I'm really scared so could y'all like e-mail me, maybe give me more advice? Because I really need more help on this! I'm scared very very scared...I really need more help then the book...I guess I could also talk to my 2 puberty friends about also...And no I don't wanna talk to my mom about it, my legs were SUPER hairy and I shaved them and my mom said "No to young" she was gonna let me shave at 14! I can't talk to her about this! So yeah just really! Email me please! (O) _ (O) ~Elizabeth was :) now : ( and I HATE THIS! : D."
--CherryCheese, 10

"My check up is almost here! My doctor is a guy. How can I let him see my vagina and breasts? Last year was no problem ’Äòcause I didn't start puberty yet. I already have pubic hair over there."
--Vivian, 11

"MAN! Last Friday, we watched a movie about puberty--And they showed PARTS, both boys and girls! It's the growth and development movie we had to watch. And I thought it was plain nasty. OK, right now I have discharge and my pubic hair is growing and I'm expecting my period to happen any minute (man, that STINKS! ). I don't wanna wear a bra--It might hurt and people will STARE. LOL, but anyway, I hope puberty ends soon."
--C_Angelie_S, 11

"I have huge breasts. Hey are almost DD's and everyone makes fun of me. Guys always stare at me and say inappropriate things. I like the attention sometimes but other time it makes me feel uncomfortable. I sometimes have to wear 2 bras or a 2nd shirt just to keep them covered."
--Jigu, 13

"I am scared because I haven't got my period yet! I am I have been growing breasts and I have been having a lot of discharge! Does that mean I am close?"
--Syd, 12

"The toughest thing about puberty to me is all the mixed emotions. Some days I'm as happy as ever, the next I'm all depressed. It's a ROLLER COASTER! I also feel really uncomfortable because I feel my chest is too big for me and everything I wear is too little because I'm too chesty. Also irregular periods...Ugh."
--Becca

"Ok I am in menstruation but I have soo many stomach cramps. Can someone help. What should I do?"
--Jamie, 11

"Erection can hurt a lot!"
--Anonymous, 10

"Not being able to shave! My mom won't get me the materials needed and I don't know how! My hair is already really dark and long."
--Angela, 12

"I'm getting taller, and I'm discharging, but I'm not getting breasts, and all my friends have them, it's not fair I'm 13 and have no breasts!"
--Anonymous, 13

"I haven't got my period yet but I'm waiting for it to happen should I wear a pad just in case."
--Anonymous

"Hey for all of you that haven't hit puberty or their period just to tell u that they are not such a big problem you just have to know when to change but most likely you would know. And the pads you'll get used to them in about 1-3 months into it. So don't worry about anyways if you are barely 9 or 10 chances are you wont get it yet, rake it from me I got it when I was 12 and I still am but ill be turning 13 soon so all of you girls just chill. Eventually you'll get it. So don't stress out if your barely 9 or 10 just chill. My sis got it when she was 12. So I didn't need to worry about me going through it first. Soo all of you girls just enjoy that you don't have to worry about when you'll get it and when to change. So take care. Luv ya guys!"
--HAPPY: D, 12

"CherryCheese/Girl, 10, if u have breasts u already r in puberty. But ur period. That's different. U might get ur period soon. That's fine. I got mine when I was 10 2!"
--Madi : -), 12

"Lokita, 12, I know it's weird I'm a girl and answering ur question, but I think everybody needs 2 now about the opposite sex. Guys grow it down there on the lags in their arms. Same places as girls."
--Madi : -), 12

"The worst part of puberty is the development on my chest it seems as if people are looking at my chest instead if me I'm only 13 and I'm already a 36C I wish I had normal sized ones but there's nothing I can do about it."
--Miah, 13

"Does it hurt to wear a tampon? When do I get my period?"
--SadCar, 12

"I'm moving on to fourteen pretty soon. Wet dreams I can deal with but it gets so annoying getting erections because it feels like everyone can see it through your pants. I have pubic hair but that's it no armpit leg hair. I start to wonder if my parents know."
--Bob, 13

"U can't do anything sorry to say but everyone go though it even boys! But girls go though a lot. More from GROWING BREASTS to "You no when the big day comes" it's never easy so try to talk to your mom or your dad they will be glad to help. P. S. Girls I've already got my you know what."
--Brandi, 12

"I am flat-chested and every other girl seems to be happy with big breasts. I just entered middle school last semester. I wear glasses, weigh 92 lbs. And am 5' 5"."
--Sara, 11

"I think that the worst part about puberty (other than the period) is the mood swings, one day you love someone the next you HATE them as if they murdered your best friend."
--Kat, 12

"I'm only 11 years old, I started growing my breasts about 2 months ago, and I haven't saw from my private spot yet. What should I do?"
--Alanna, 11

"The toughest part for me is seeing my friends struggle with it. One forgot her tampons at home and asked me for one. And I haven't started what should I do?"
--Morgan, 11

"I hate having breasts. I'm a little over weight, so they are bigger then they should be. It's so embarrassing because some people can see the bra and some VERY rude boys may pull on the back strap. AHHHHHHHHH!"
--Rebecca, 13

"Well I think I have just started puberty because my breasts are popping out a bit. I wore a tight shirt and it was popping out so I wore a tank top under it all my friends have breasts or bra I have neither."
--Candice, 12

"My penis hurts at times and sometimes I feel like I really wanna kiss a girl! I mean I have a girlfriend named Shanyaya and she just doesn't listen."
--Jacob, 13

"This is for girls out there. Okay u know how when you take like health class and the teacher (my teacher is a female) tells u that when u have a period it's close to the age of your mom's. And she had hers when she was 11 1/2 and I'm that age and I'm afraid. So any girls out there that can give advice."
--Mimi, 11

"Let's get one thing straight...EVERYONE HATES PUBERTY! The toughest part is when you have your period it's soo annoying! My brother (Chris) says he doesn't like puberty because (for boys) your voice changes."
--Bridgette, 11

"OKAY SUpergirl- your the pro- (right) well, when I got mine I was freakin' out, but just don't rush it or be ashamed, it happens! It's cool the way God designed our bodies to work so perfectly! Be ready and always prepared, and ask your mom when she first got it so you can estimate when you might start your period and stuff...Oh, and Midol works wonders."
--Chels

"Star 12, u cant do anything. I know it's hard but ur gonna have 2 just wait. Sorry!"
--Madi : -), 12

"Ok, now everyday my...Hurts and my breasts have been really tender and itchy! Should that mean anything? I'm scared am I going into puberty? I have the different emotion thing everyday and the pain, and the itching! Why is this happening does it mean puberty because I think I'm way to young to be going into it! Help!"
--CherryCheese/Girl, 10

"I've been growing and developing for about a year now I sometimes get cramps about when will I get my period."
--Melissa, 12

"Now I don't have breasts but I have a period!"
--Monica, 10

"I am sorta embarrassed because I have bigger breasts then the girls in my class. At least my mom isn't' puberty crazed!"
--Shanna, 11

"I have little padded bras but I'm starting to get discharge! I don't want my period and my mom is weird she doesn't listen to me at all help."
--No name, 10

"I think that I have too much hair under my arms. I'm embarrassed at swim practice when we stretch. However there is this 4th grader who is worse than moi!"
--Shanna, 11

"Take it from somebody who knows...I've had my period for a while now and it's really not that hard to deal with...Breasts will come, and they will hurt, but don't rush them...All in good time. If you get tummy or back cramps just take ibuprofen or Tylenol or somethin'...Not too much...DON'T TRY TO RUSH ANYTHING...It will not help. You girls can shave now, so when you start bleeding, first ask a really good friend who your pretty sure has already had a period. Or your mom...She's gone through the same thingie your going through, and she understands how embarrassing it can be...Soon you'll not be afraid and just say, "Hey I'm on my period, so don't make me run in gym..."Or something like that. My last tip is always to keep a pad in your backpack. And extra shorts/undies. Dude it happens to every girl, trust your friends, and BE HAPPY! Nothin' to worry bout girlfriend!"
--Supergirl

"My Private hurts all of a sudden, and I'm a guy, MALES Help! Erection is also really bad for me."
--Elias, 11

"Puberty is so scary! We talk about this in health class. My health teacher is a GUY! He talks about the girl stuff and it is so embarrassing. The guys in my class learn this 2. N E 1 in this situation?"
--Vivian, 11

"I hate it when GUYS talk about girl stuff and U KNOW WHAT in front of me. I also hate health class on this topic with a GUY TEACHER."
--Vivian, 11

"I started my period like last Christmas it stinks, and if you play sports than it especially stinks because u get like bumps everywhere it's like totally normal but it still feels weird. Oh and some advice when your breasts develop and your wearing a bra with a tight shirt, don't feel uncomfortable guys think u look sexy. At least that's what mine says..."
--Olivia

"Dear Embarrassed, it's ok. I didn't get mine till I was 14, but now I have a normal cycle and a lot of other people don't. Trust me we are lucky we started later than others. Periods are no picnic...:)."
--Silly Sagie

"The toughest part is when you start to get pimples. I deal with it by not caring."
--Alexa, 12

"Will sleeping on your stomach and chest effect your breast growth?"
--Rebecca, 13

"I am going through puberty. I am getting taller ( about five foot seven), my feet are bigger (10 and a half), and I'm getting hair on my legs and other places! My mother says "Oh, you're becoming a MAN!". It's SO EMBARRASSING!"
--Ryant, 13

"I think the most hardest is wearing a bra."
--A naruto fan gurl

"Cherrycheese I think you should I mean it does not hurt to read it again and it will help you."
--Keonna, 10

"My breasts sometimes get hard why?"
--Megan

"Ashley: It probably was a panty liner, you put them over your underpants..."
--Taylor, 12

"My period was really embarrassing and I hardly get only about every 7 months is that bad. And my breasts are little and I want big ones like my friends. HELP!"
--Stephanie, 10

"The hardest part of puberty is the popularys. I guess I'm not the most popular in the class. I LOVE Harry Potter and Lord of the Rings so that makes me a fantasy dork. I even write on every paper at school HP and Lord of the rings rock. I don't have the prettiest face and the best hair and half the time I think people (even my friends) don't care about me. I just want to say don't worry about the new things that are happing to you just be yourself and you'll get through it. Anyway...HP + LORD OF THE RINGS ROCK 'n' ROLL!"
--Grace, 11

"Umm...Isn't it obvious? duh! Periods. Gosh, why do girls have it so hard but all guys get is like, voice changes at the most. Guys, give the X chromosomes some respect! We gave birth to u! (well not me, but other women)."
--Rose, 12

"The toughest part is telling your parents you had your period. Because your whole family might find out and it's scary!"
--Fatima, 12

"I hate it."
--Fatima, 12

"I got my period when I was in grade six and it was NOT at school. I thought I felt more mature, and there was nothing to be afraid of when you get your period."
--Alyssa, 13

"To answer Star Age 12: You can't make your period come sooner, you just have to wait till you get it and don't be ashamed if it's in front of friends. Say IT'S NORMAL! You cannot make your breasts grow faster either. Your body has to adjust to puberty. You know when you are getting cramps when you get a pain just below your belly button. Discharge is a white sticky thick type liquid and it comes out before you start to get your period, you get this to make your private moist. DON'T GET GROSED OUT! AND PLEASE BE MATURE! Don't worry about your breast size, they will grow. And when they start to grow you will get your period very soon. It is normal for them to hurt when you bump them, just be careful. You get cramps below your belly button. Doing a head stand against the wall will Not make your period start sooner. As I said before it comes at a certain time when you body starts to develop hair under your arms, private parts arms legs and more, other sighs are your breasts growing bigger, bad attitudes and more. The age range from when you can get your period is when you are either from 10or 9 to about 14 or 15, if you don't get it by the age of 15, no worries just go see a doctor or tell your mother. Your armpits are probably itching because they are growing hair. There you go : ) I hope that helped you star - 12. I am 13 and I already got my period so I know how it feels. Don't worry. Your time will come and I repeat you can't control when you get your period!"
--Alyssa, 13

"I got my period it's annoying but my friend has helped me through it. Also if you keep pads in your bag it's not to bad."
--Colleen, 11

"I think puberty is really hard when you are waiting for it to start properly. As a lot of the time it takes forever, like your nipples are sore for a year and absolutely nothing happens. It is so annoying!"
--Charlie, 11

"The toughest part about puberty? I don't think you can single it out like that. Anyone who has any questions-look in the body part, under puberty, read through that, if ur a girl go under 'For Girls' for guys, go under 'For Boys'. I've got breasts, B. O., & hormone changes. Apparently periods happen last, but there's a lot of worrying about when it's going to happen once you learn about it, like my mom's friend got it on the first day of middle school and there was a lot of blood, and she bled onto the stand, and they were sitting closest to the door and everyone saw it. But if u have one of these, don't worry. People won't make fun of you once they get it, and apparently for boys it's pretty bad too. The hard part is thinking you're the only one. If you look on here, a lot of people have questions. Breasts won't grow sooner, there's no remedy, but apparently bottled water has chemicals that make puberty come sooner, but it also increases risk of cancer; so it's kind of not worth it. For all of you guys out there that are still worried, don't worry..."
--Anonymous

"I think the toughest part is the period. It is so hard to get used to. I dealt with it pretty well though, all I did was keep a calendar, but since it was irregular for the first 5 months, I just carried a pad in my pocket and wore a pantyliner just in case I wasn't ready for it, since it kept coming at different times. I was 11 years old when I got it. I knew I had because all of a sudden in the morning I got up felt a sharp pain in my lower abdomen, went to the bathroom, and OMG THERE IT WAS! THATS MY STORY!"
--Rylie, 12

"Hi I'm Katie! My breasts haven't developed yet but I have underarm and public hair and think I could start my periods anytime now but I don't know how I can ask my mum to buy me some ads in case I start at school but it's not something I can ask my mum ’Äòcos I'm shy! HELP ME!"
--Katie, 10

"My friend is mad at me because I got I before her! Like what is her problem you don't wanna have it!"
--Jess, 11

"Bras."
--Anonymous

"The toughest part about puberty is when I have my period and the odor."
--Karen, 12

"Why do guys have to be so immature?"
--Baby phat, 12

"Where do guys grow their hair? Do they grow around there private parts?"
--Lokita, 12

"I don't like my penis growing it hurts."
--Anonymous

"The toughest part of going through puberty is if you start it before your friends. I've already gotten my period but my best friend hasn't so when I'm in the bathroom longer than she is she just doesn't get why."
--Jessica, 10

"I got a bra at 8."
--Anonymous

"CherryCheese, 10, u probably r going thru puberty. It okay, u wont hit the worst part for a while. And u should get informed so ur know what's coming! Good luck!"
--Madi : -), 12

"Getting my breasts my parents wont get me cup bras."
--Kaya, 9

"The toughest part of puberty is when acne comes and gets me everywhere!"
--Jennifer, 13

"Ughhh I HATE pimples they got all over my face I think that is the toughest part for me! I just want to have a clean FACE! I use proactive but it doesn't seem to be working!"
--Anonymous, 13

"For the first 3 days of my period I have such bad cramps. I sometimes cry it hurts so bad. Like in my lower back and my tummy. What should I do?"
--Silly Sagie, 13

"O. M. G. All of my other friends are getting breasts, and I am the only one in the class with no breasts. I feel so dorky."
--Brennan, 10

"One word...PERIODS ok this is how I handle it, I wear dark pants (just in case) and I take a mydol in the morning so it helps the cramps, and I tell my friends and I bring extra pads and stuff to school just in case I REALLY need to change: S anyway if u have your period DON'T WORRY it happens to everyone AND DON'T KEEP IT A SECRET tell ur mom RIGHT away so she can help you: D."
--Carrie, 12

"I already have had my period. I have not told my mom. I have pubic hairs already and I'm 11! I don't worry about anything. Periods are nothing so don't worry about it!"
--BLah, 11

"Hey guys, I feel awful ’Äòcuz all my friends are talking about "Emo" and I don't know what that means! Plz! SOME1! What dose emo mean? I know it is like "U r emo" but I don't know what emo means! PLZ HELP! PLZ!"
--Madison, 11

"T mac: talk 2 ur mom about this if she doesn't listen then talk 2 ur health teacher or aunt I hoped I helped."
--Hanaa, 10

"Hi, Brook, 13 You should tell your mom or dad that you have neck problems tell them before it gets even worse. I hope the pain in your neck doesn't get any worse. Bye."
--Jess, 13

"Hey I've got cramps right now and down below feels weird like it's tingling what is it and what are wet dreams also it's kinda embarrassing when I'm at school and in p. E ’Äòcause my friend is developing faster and I'm really annoyed y can't I develop like her I kinda fell left out also what is the average age to start your periods. 11 in April 26 so close."
--Someone, 10

"It's gotta be the periods. They STINK. They're horrible! I hate them. And BOYFRIENDS. U think u want to like guys like that, but u don't! Ends bad. Puberty is NOT fun."
--Eh., 13

"The scariest thing about puberty is knowing if something is normal or not. For instance, sometimes I get a white icky substance on my underwear."
--Sarah, 10

"I have a problem: I feel like everything has been refreshed in my life. Everything is turning good for me. The weird thing is that when this started happening, my sister said she hated me and she was mad. I know that's strange but is it puberty?? Or other?"
--Kessy, 9

"I started my period a few months ago at home. I just saw blood and got a little scared. The weird thing is that I started 2 days after my school talk to the girls about periods. After I told my friends (Vanessa and Cindy) I felt good so now I'm cool about my period!"
--Monica, 10

"I have started to get this white gooey stuff on my knickers it happened a lot for about 3 weeks but I haven't started my period yet why is this???"
--Sarah, 11

"My period just started 2day on the Boston Duck Tour boat. 04-16-08."
--Won't_tell_U

"I have to wear this bra every day. All the boys stare when I play sports and I hate it. And I hate how showing a bra can be."
--Taylor, 12

"What on earth causes discharge? Is it a sign of a period?"
--Taylor, 12

"Jack, 10 you should not worry. It happens to everyone of all ages. It's called discharge..."
--Cathie

"IckyVicky, Don't get creeped out. It's OK! Just watch the video. About you hair, no need to worry, it's normal."
--Supadupa, 12

"Yes I am in forth grade and I do wear bras and no one make fun of me."
--Jennifer, 10

"Fiona, if you're 8 you probably aren't starting to go through puberty. You'll know. When my breasts started to develop I felt them ache when I put pressure on them. For periods, you'll see a red thing on your pants. But if you ARE going through puberty tell a parent. They'll help you through it."
--Taylor, 12

"Sumbuddy, discharge is when white stuff comes out of your you-know-what..."
--Taylor, 12

"Kaylyn, Omg, no need to worry! Most girls don't start until they are at least 12, like me. You'll know when you get your period, trust me."
--Taylor, 12

"No name, I think you should ask a parent what a period is..."
--Taylor, 12

"MY opinion on boys is that thy should like you for who you are, not how big your breasts are..."
--Taylor, 12

"I think the hardest thing of puberty is PERIOD! I don't have my PERIOD yet, but my sister say she take MYDOL and it makes her feel waaaaaay better!"
--Nonyabeezwax1, 11

"I had a health class yesterday and they talked all about puberty (I absolutely, POSITIVELY REFUSE TO POST WHAT OUR HEALTH TEACHER TALKED TO US ABOUT!!!!! ) Thank you for your time. ;) :) : p."
--Kitten, 11

"Hey Guys"!!! Guess what I have not had my period yet but my sister just got it last year when she was 14 and I was 10. But now she is 15. And it was hard the few first months but now she is fine. My question is will I get breast, acne, and my period when my sis got it because I have not got discharge on my underwear yet and also I do not have breasts yet. My sis got her breast when she was 13. PLZ ANSWER ME I HAVE LOTS OF QUESTIONS!?!?!?!?!"
--Makena, 11

"I think the toughest part about going though puberty is getting all the blood stains that won't come out. Looks like it's time to go shopping again!"
--Emily, 9

"Hey Tanika I live with my dad too. And I'm already going through my period. I was on the website and my dad came in. At first I was scared but then my dad started talking about it. Then I didn't feel so bad. My best advice for you is to invite your dad into the room and go on this website, go to puberty and start reading out loud. That should brake the ice. Then ask your dad a few questions like, what was the hardest thing about going though puberty and then go from there."
--Emily, 9

"Toughest part about puberty to me is the rumors. Some kids have started rumors about me starting life and saying things that aren't true. I have advice for people like me. 1st don't show your offended, be confident, oh and don't be mean about it. 2nd if you can't talk to them about it around people try calling them or send them a letter telling them how it made you feel. And 3rd try to look back at it as if something might've been made up, seen, or heard by mistake. But whatever happens I'm wishing you good luck!!!!"
--Abigail, 11

"I started my period when I was 8 yrs old! My mom and family members always got me a bra for Christmas. My cup size when I was 8 was 32A and now it's a size B!!!!! I got used to have a big problem with it but I suddenly got used to it. You just go with the flow! :)."
--Savannah, 12

"I had my period."
--Blair, 11

"Julia: when u get ur period u slow down growth. Right? ’Äò’Äòcuz that is what my doctor said and I'm happy ’Äò’Äòcuz when I slow down I get 2 GET OUT OF THE *BEEPING* BACK BRACE!!!!!! I HATE IT!!! Now I just need 2 tell my mom that I have my period."
--Madi : -), 12

"Marlenne, 10: I have the same problem u have. When u get ur period say "Mom, I just got my period." She will understand I hope mine will."
--Madi : -), 12

"Shawanda, 12: we go thru puberty so we can MAKE BABIES."
--Madi : -), 12

"My hardest part about going through puberty is going to school and not knowing I was going to start my period. And also there was this time there was a girl in my PE Class. We were playing volleyball and all of a sudden blood dripped out, and she was so embarrassed."
--Cristina, 12

"I HATE HATE HATE HATE HATE HATE HATE HATE HATE HATE HATE HATE HATE HATE HATE Puberty!!!!!!!!! It is sooooooooooooooo annoying! I get the mood changes and my guardians think that it is because I am stuck up!!!! And I Hate breasts, bras and the DOT. It is soooo annoying to have to worry about all of this stuff..."
--Brooke, 11

"Mary: when you start your period you will go in the bathroom and see red stuff on your underpants. Since your 12 like me and I got MY period, you might want to carry around some pads..."
--Taylor, 12

"Cherrycheese, 10: Mood swings and sore breasts are symptoms of puberty. The mood swings could be part of a period, or just something going on in your life. Read THE CARE AND KEEPING OF YOU for more!"
--Taylor, 12

"Marleene, YES! You are normal, and so are your breasts. I started wearing a bra at age 9! There is no ’Äòcause for alarm!"
--Taylor, 12

"Hi, I'm Elizabeth and I'm 10...Ok I don't want puberty or anything but yet my breasts are sore and I'm starting to sweat at random moments, and I am a bra size AA, and I'm getting new emotions and I'm having different emotions like mood swings! I read "The Book" as in the YOU book and it said I should be worried about emotions like I explained earlier! Am I going through puberty? Should I start reading "THE BOOK" again? Please help me!"--CherryCheese, 10. Everything is normal! You will get new emotions and the old 1s get stronger during puberty. You've felt emotions before, but now you feel really STRONG emotions. Instead of just disliking something, you HATE it. Instead of liking something, you LOVE it. You were a little jealous before, but now you're SUPER jealous. There have been times when you were sad, but now you feel TOTALLY DEPRESSED. In other words, your emotions have gotten more intense. Talk later about the rest!"
--D0t123, 11

"HEY GIRLS!!! Period problems: they totally stress u out and stress makes acne worse! Solution: chillax! Take hot baths, read or give your self a spa day and unwind AND DON'T STRESS OUT!!!"
--D0t123, 11

"Sarah: There is really no way that you can make your breasts grow other than waiting. Actually, you should enjoy them NOT growing while you can because when they do start it kind of hurts (no need to be worried, though! ). Everyone starts at different times."
--Advicegirl

"To Hannah: Try sitting down with your Mom (don't be nervous! ) Take a deep breath and say "Mom, I feel like I am ready for a bra." Also, explain what happens to you in gym. If your Mom says no, ask her for a training bra maybe. Hope this helps!"
--Advicegirl

"To JLynn, 11: You never know when you will get your period. Some people get it at like, 11 and some people get it at 16! Don't be worried. Just have fun!"
--Advicegirl

"You just ignore it and it will be over before you know it."
--Maria, 10

"It's kinda weird because one day you are fine but, the next you are getting taller, and other things are happening to you. It is really SCARY BUT, IT'S JUST LIFE IT HAPPENS TO EVERYBODY!!!"
--Bobby, 12

"Well puberty where do I start...I don't want to grow up and go through puberty and I'm ummmm 10! But I am scared and I have a book that tells me about puberty and I am really really scared my mom got it when she was 12 and got her breasts at well 12! But she was in the middle of a class in school and a boy noticed and laughed! I am scared that that will happen to me, will it happen when I am a pre teen or 11, 12, 13! Help!!!!"
--Alyssa, 10

"My friend started her periods last week but I wanted to start first in my friendship group. What do I do?"
--Charlotte R, 11

"Hi I'm Charlotte my friends call me Lotty and I am really upset. My Best friend started her periods last week and I wanted to start first what do I do HELP? P. S. I no it sounds horrible but I really need to no what to do?"
--Charlotte R, 11

"I feel so...Ugh. I think the worst part is the period..."
--May

"I actually like puberty. I like how ur body develops. My breasts are full grown now. I actually LUV wearing a bra. It makes me feel so adult ish. I just hate the pains."
--Carolina

"I haven't gone through my period or getting a bra but I am getting hair in certain places. I really don't like puberty but it is the first sign of be coming a woman!"
--Jeanna, 9

"To me the toughest part about puberty is growing breast. I deal with it because I do wear a bra it has been a year since I started growing breast and just to say I got use to it."
--Brandy, 12

"To D0t123, 11: If you are getting cramps down there, it might mean that you will get your period soon. Don't worry, I am about your age and I don't have cramps yet, but I do have some breasts. Note: If you get your period at school, you don't have to panic. Just chill! If you don't have a pad or a tampon, just fold some toilet paper up and put it in your underwear! Easy as that! Oh, and this isn't JUST for school, you can do this at any public place!"
--Advicegirl

"Well probably the bra. I deal with it by wearing strapless bras so boys won't be like "Why do you have straps? Is that your t-shirt?" If you can't find strapless just ask an adult you trust how to deal with it and don't buy shirts that make you feel weird."
--Kaliyha, 10

"Dear Lauren 9, you can get it between the ages of 8- 16 so you might get yours when your 11 or 14. Some girls are early but most aren't. So it's not unusual or weird..."
--Narnian girl, 11

"I have only just started puberty and my mum got me some pads to wear now to get used to wearing them by the time I get my period."
--Jane, 10

"I just got my first period in class and didn't know I talked to the teacher at recess and she gave me a diaper? it was a pull-up she is really weird and yes I wore it."
--Ashley, 12

"Alana: Try talking 2 a different family member (an aunt, 4 Xampl) or another trusted adult."
--Shoot4themoon, 13

"How did u get ur period at 8?"
--Chantel, 10

"Hey, it's me again. It's April fourteenth and I still don't have my period. I am so glad I don't want to have it. But I'm afraid of getting my period."
--Antoinette, 13

"How do you make your period start sooner if you never have had it. And how do you make your breasts grow faster? how do you know when you are getting cramps? and what is discharge? my breasts kill but there quite small still they have been tender since September! And it's April! They still haven't grown! And I don't know what to do when I get bumped or something like that because it hurts so bad and I just told my mom in march that they were tender! And she only said oh. What do I do! And where do you get cramps? how do you know it's cramps when you get them? I have heard a way to make your period start sooner is doing head stands against the wall is this true? how do you make your period start sooner? and is there a way to make your breasts grow faster? I have been having mood swings since the begging of 5 grade and I'm at the end of 7 and I haven't started my period when will I? my armpits are always itching and I don't know why will someone please help me!"
--Star, 12

"I have hair on my arm legs the private part and light hair under my arms am I going threw puberty and if you have pimples are you going threw puberty."
--T Mac, 13

"In school we had a bunch of classes on this to make sure we know exactly what is going on. It helps a lot to get it over with and to know more about what is going on with your body."
--Amy, 12

"I'm so flat chested and I wish I could wear a bra! Help me!"
--Anonymous, 9

"Hi, I'm Elizabeth and I'm 10...Ok I don't want puberty or anything but yet my breasts are sore and I'm starting to sweat at random moments, and I am a bra size AA, and I'm getting new emotions and I'm having different emotions like mood swings! I read "The Book" as in the YOU book and it said I should be worried about emotions like I explained earlier! Am I going through puberty? Should I start reading "THE BOOK" again? Please help me!"
--CherryCheese, 10

"Well, I want to be popular but there is no way I can. In middle school everyone has to dress alike think alike etc, etc, etc. I don't want to be like someone else, I like to be myself. If I won't be like anyone else, these one boys tease me about it ’Äòcause everyone has short hair and contacts, and I have long think curly hair and I wear glasses. In my middle school everyone is going out with someone but guess what...I have no one. Sometimes I get depressed about my looks, as if no one likes me, and I get depressed about my odor, I spray like the whole bottle of spray, 24-7 hours a day 7 days a week, and my glasses, I hate them! What should I do ’Äòcause I really don't want to tell on the people that tease me ’Äòcause they would tease me more and more. Please help me."
--Henasee, 13

"Star 12, I know just how u feel, I cant talk 2 my mom and I'm homeschooled, discharge is kind of clearish white stuff u will get in ur underwear b4 ur period. And cramps will just be like ur stomach is sore but u will notice ’Äòcuz it wont be just a hungry feeling lol."
--Madi : -), 12

"Alana, 11 I'm sorry for u. When u get it tell ur parents u were reading about it online on a PBS site called It's My Life."
--Madi : -), 12

"Anna, 10 and Jayda, 11: u will be between the ages of 8-16 and ur period is pretty simple, just stick a pad in ur underwear. Ask ur mom about it when u get it."
--Madi : -), 12

"Anonymous and No name: K, to both of u a period is when blood comes out into ur underpants. And bras don't feel much different then having an undershirt on. I recommend the book THE CARE AND KEEPING OF YOU. I can't tell u everything so books will help more."
--Madi : -), 12

"Me: o that's fine. I just didn't wanna get in a fight, u didn't sound rude! : -)."
--Madi : -), 12

"Hey I'm starting to get white gooey stuff in my underwear. What is it?"
--Nicole, 11

"How do I know when I well start my period?"
--Mary, 12

"I hit puberty when I was 9. I feel a little embarrassed about it, and I'm wondering why I STILL haven't gotten my stupid period yet. But it's not as embarrassing because I am homeschooled, so I don't have to worry about being bullied. And nobody knows but my mom and I. If you feel bad for not hitting puberty at a certain age, just think: some girls don't start puberty until they're 19! Imagine getting your first period in your early twenties! Plus, it's not a race and there are no prizes for being the first girl to hit puberty, wear a bra, and all that stuff."
--Chihuhua14, 11

"I am a early developer. I got a bra when I was 10..."
--Kelly, 12

"When I got my period I really scared because my older sister said that I would sop growing and I really wanted to grow more but when I found when the whole puberty stage ends you could sop growing now I hope I could be 5ft8 or7."
--Julia

"I already have breasts at the age of 10. Is that normal? Or is that just weird? What if I get my period at a time when I can't get any help? What do I do? I just can't ask my mom for a pad like a weirdo or can I? HELP!"
--Marlenne, 10

"Why do we girls have to go through puberty why couldn't we just enjoyed our lives as it is?"
--Shawanda, 12

"Trust me, periods are icky! I've had mine once, but I already know!"
--Ivana

"Ello, I've had my. For like 2 years now and it's not scary...Once you get past the fact you will be having this every month, it's fine...Just don't think!"
--WLlooo

"Dear Star 12, Go to a bookstore, that's how I found out and I'm homeschooled."
--Zoe, 12

"Dear Hilda 9, You're only NINE! I didn't start getting them until I was 11. Please, don't put yourself in peer pressure."
--Zoe, 12

"I have bras like little under wear bras and a sorta real bra but I have had discharge before but I don't have my period yet. Why? am I too young."
--Lauren, 9

"Ya wearing a bra I'm scared but I have to."
--Maeve, 12

"The worst part of going through a period is when there is a red dot on your pant that everyone is looking at."
--Maddi, 13

"My first period is like the hardest part of puberty. I didn't know how to tell my mom, but I did. I couldn't get used to bras, too. It toke me like 3 weeks!"
--Madi : -P, 11

"Have breasts no period."
--Someone, 10

"Hey, the toughest part of going thought puberty is getting my period. I hate it when I have to where pads to school...They are so uncomfortable for me...Is it because I just started and I'm just not used to it. Thanks a lot : P."
--Shy nb, 12

"The worst thing about puberty is probably breasts because I started developing a few months ago and I'm still not comfortable wearing a bra and wearing tight shirts. I feel embarrassed and awkward."
--Sophia, 10

"The smell I hate it when your tummy hurts."
--Sara, 13

"Although I have breast their not a big as my friends but I still were bras to keep them up tell your mom if you are developing otherwise people {guys mostly} will stare. {It's happen tome but I got a boyfriend from it! HA HA HA."
--Nyeila, 11

"Having to tell a parent that you have started your periods."
--Faye, 11

"GUYS HELP ON THIS! I'm getting these cramps really down low, like where my bladder is and a little bit lower where my...Um...Area starts. Is this normal? PLEASE help!" --Angie." PLEASE you guys! It seems like everybody else is changing except me! I'm 11 and 1/2 with no discharge, no breast buds, no hair, nothing! PLEASE HELP Advicegirl and Madi, 12. What's wrong with me?" --Angie, 11. I'm Just like you, age and puberty stats. Ever1 starts at different times. I have itty bitty buds and Karli in my class is flat! And those pains r normal. Part of PMS. (premenstrual syndrome). Happens before a period!"
--D0t123, 11

"The toughest thing is when you wake up with wet dreams and get erections and people see them through your pants/shorts."
--Benjamin, 12

"Crying Is tough because I never know when I'm going to cry so I talk to my mom dad heavenly father."
--Samantha, 11

"The 2 hardest parts of puberty is your period and legs I am 11 years old and it is hard because bleeding and having to shave and shave is the worst plus breasts boys want one thing and that is to be the coolest person either by dating the hottest girl ever or maybe even being caught kissing a guys girlfriend."
--Kayli, 11

"I think I have puberty. What should I do?"
--Fiona, 8

"I think it is bras. Because when my bra strap sometimes hangs out of my shirt my best friend always tells me and that's really embarrassing! I just tell her to wait till her Mom makes her wear one! P. S what is discharge?"
--Kaley, 10

"When I sent my last message, I was in complete fear of my period to start. Two months ago, it happened. For those of you who are curious, here's how it happened: I was at my Lutheran grade school doing homework. I'd also been waiting for my teacher to call on me so I could go to the bathroom. There I discovered the stains, so when I got home, I put a pantyliner on. The second won happened last month. So yah, I have a regular cycle . Lucky for me, I don't have mood swings or cramps. But I do have a question. What do I do if I have a heavier period in my school since we have no nurse or supplies in our office? Our school is so small our student population is 20 kids! That's it from me."
--Meshelle, 11

"Nia, to find out why girls get breasts, click Choose a Topic and go to puberty. In a FOR GIRLS section, one part should say The Breast Years of Your Life. Read that and you will find out."
--Caryn, 10

"When I'm asleep and semen comes out, embarrassing! But I wash my sheets now."
--Fernando

"I don't want to get breasts I am scared."
--Lauren, 12

"I hate breasts! So instead of wearing the padded bras my mom got me, I wear a jacket, but now the weather getting to warm for that. If the class sees I'm developing, I'll just die! Help!"
--Meshelle, 11

"Well idk about the whole puberty thing I mean u just got 2 live life and go through puberty every body does and if u need info ask ur parents that's what they're 4."
--Jazlyn

"This white stuff is coming out of my you know...Should I worry."
--Jack, 10

"I have white stuff coming out of my you know what."
--Dave, 12

"My periods."
--Donna

"Periods. They are such a pain. They catch you off guard, you get pains and you feel horrible. Also I hated it when you best mates seems to all have bigger breasts than you feels horrible = (."
--Chanel, 13

"When you go through puberty you get moodier. I think that's the toughest part of puberty because it kinda gets you grounded more. That's what happened to me."
--Kitten, 11

"Hey Anonymous (11) : Discharge looks like white sticky stuff in ur knickers! It's kinda like glue! Hope this helps! If u have anymore questions ask me!"
--Aoife: -), 11

"I know everyone says it's not a big deal, but to me, it's SCARY! I can't get over the fact that someday my period will come, and it's soon! HELP ME! I know it's nothing to worry about, everyone tells me what to expect, and STILL I worry! What can I do to help myself?"
--OoOoOoOo, 12

"Me having armpit hair some people laugh if a have on a tank top and it shows my hair. And also having hair on my bikini spot and me being fat me having pimples and bumps on my face."
--Iyonna, 10

"The hardest thing for me is stronger body odor. I take impulse and roll on to school and put more on every break and lunch :)."
--Fai, 12

"My breasts started getting tender and I feel to weird talking to my mom and I started getting hair between my legs about 2 months ago. What is discharge? and how do you know if your having cramps and discharge or not please I'm home schooled and don't get maturation and I am busy all the time so I don't get to talk to my friends and my mom is weird to talk to please please help me!"
--Star, 12

"I'm going through puberty now and I think the toughest part of puberty is that everyone grows at a different time and it's kind of hard to see your best friend look more developed then you when your both the same age. But every one grows at a different time."
--Allison, 12

"It's me, 11, don't rush it u won't like it much when you do get it."
--Sarah, 12

"Cortney, 11, okay so u will get it when your body's ready. Sometimes you develop more in other places earlier than when u get it."
--Sarah, 12

"Kenrox-Kendall, 11, in time everyone starts at different times. You can't just say a certain age."
--Sarah, 12

"All the girls in my grade are tall and have big ones...And they are all popular...I'm short and have a flat chest...How do I fit in?"
--Jamie, 11

"I feel soooooooo icky; seriously! My breasts feel weird and plus, my pubic hair is creeping me out. The kids at my school have to watch a movie about puberty (don't worry, the boys are separated from the girls) and there are "Parts." I have no idea what it's rated, but I think it should be rated "E" for "Exposed"!"
--IckyVicky, 11

"I am so scared to get my period. I go to an all-girls school and only some of us have started out period. We still refer to it as "The end of the sentence", and when I do, I feel very immature, but getting my period scares me to death."
--Catherine, 12

"Hey! Okay so...I am 14 years old and I've had almost the exact same bra size since 7th grade! (I'm in 9th now) when will my breasts start to grow again?!"
--Lindsey

"My sister is nine and she asked me why I have hair between my legs and she don't and so I gave her a little talk on puberty and what changes happen."
--Penny, 13

"I'm going for a physical next week, and I have a lady doctor, and the results of my tests come in the mail."
--Jake, 13

"Erections are the toughest thing. I have gotten them at school a few times, luckily I am sitting in a desk usually when they happen..."
--Shaun, 13

"My Aunt told me all about puberty! But I still didn't understand. What is puberty?? I don't even that red stuff!"
--Jazmine, 10

"I haven't started it yet but...I'm really scared. I'm scared because I know that when I have my period, I won't be prepared because MY PARENTS DON'T EVEN THINK I KNOW WHAT THE WORD MEANS! They won't help me and if I tried to bring it up they would yell at me wondering how I found out about it. All I know is, my parents aren't helping, so who WILL???"
--Alana, 11

"I still haven't started my period and my mom and sister started when they were 10."
--Anonymous, 12

"Albana, when u get ur period it hurts some girls but not all. It will mostly hurt ur stomach and below. Hope this helps!"
--Madi :)-), 12

"Angie, 11:) NOTHING is wrong with u Angie. Promise. Girls usually start puberty between 8-14. U will be fine. Promise. I understand this is hard but NOTHING is wrong with u. Ur body is on a schedule all its own..."
--Madi :)-), 12

"I really, really want to have breasts! I see some girls at school, the street, and in TV, they all have breasts! I'm always asking my mom if I have and she says a little bit, but I want to have more! Not too much but at least something that I can notice!"
--Hilda, 9

"It does not matter when you use tampons. I started using tampons during my second period. I had trouble the first time using them but I got used to them. I would recommend tampax pearl if you need you can get smaller sizes. If you do lots of sports it's easier and more convenience. For pads I would use always pads. I hope this info helps Leyte..."
--Virginia, 12

"The worst part of it is when you see the blood you might be scared but don't be it's alright every woman goes through it! If you are ok with it tell a grown at school at a sport (a coach)! You want to start with pads and when you get older you switch to tampons! It's ok to take a bath (I was so scared to take one! )."
--Ashley, 11

"The hardest thing is getting used to it. Everyone is acting all awkward now. & people think it's funny, but I take it seriously..."
--Vanessa, 11

"I have my period but I'm scared to tell my mother so what do I do oh and I'm almost in my moms bras what should I do raven?"
--Lizzy, 11

"Definitely getting my period. I was embarrassed to tell me mom and stuck toilet paper in my underwear till I could find pads! It was also kind of scary."
--Abby, 12

"Probably having wet dreams and erections. And having "The Talk" with your dad about sex. But I already know about puberty, but I don't tell my dad that, so he thinks I'm clueless."
--Samuel, 11

"Well, I just got my aunt flo at school, today."
--Anonymous

"I haven't had my period yet...But I am looking for some tips! Can some1 help...PLEASE!"
--Anna, 10

"How old do you have to be to get your period?"
--Jayda, 11

"Hey I have come on my periods an other times I have been on it has not hurt this bad I sorta heavy as well n it kills. What can I do?"
--Shannon, 12

"No way anonymous, wait a while and you will have stick-out breasts. P. S. I do not know."
--Laura, 9

"So I have these cramps in my stomach. My mom and dad took me to see two different doctors two different months. The first one said "Well, I think that she is just changing inside, getting ready for menstruation" My mom was cool with it, but my dad was kind of embarrassed. The next day my mom bought me pads! She let me try one on (That may sound weird, but I was wondering! ). It felt like wearing a diaper. I didn't mind, though. The next doctor said the same thing. My mom was cool with it, and my dad wasn't as embarrassed. What's worse is when I told my friends, and she got jealous :)/"."
--Rebecca, 9

"For girls with periods, I have found that if u do a lot during ur period it helps u forget about it and it feels like it ends quicker!"
--Madi :)-), 12

"Mariah, 13:) Nope, I'm not boy-crazy. YAY ME! THAT MEANS I'M NOT INSANE! (No offense 2 U girls who R boy-crazy. ) I don't wanna B distracted by them all the time now, & I don't wanna have 2 work 4 2 ppl in the future. +, I like being by myself & doing things my own way, & with a husband in the house, doing things only my way will B difficult. So far, my personality is not right 4 a family. 1s again, no offense 2 U girls who wanna get married--Actually, we need girls like U, b/c if every girl thought like me, the human race would go Xtinct!"
--Shoot4themoon, 13

"Mine is sweating! I hate it I just keep my arms down all day!"
--Shane, 11

"I haven't had puberty yet but, I have been wondering since getting the period is so scary and tough why is it? What is so scary about it? I don't get it? Is it a big deal? What happens when you have it? please help. My mom says I can go throw puberty any time. So please help."
--Anonymous

"I'm really afraid of puberty. I have a few questions. Can some friendships end? What is a period? Don't worry I'm a girl. What does a bra feel like?"
--No name

"All my friends at school are like 6 months younger than me and my mom says that those small months apart make a big difference in the puberty ages. So I am coming up to puberty, ( ex:) starting to like boys, growing breasts, etc) and my friends aren't. It is hard but someone has to go through it first. I deal with it by looking up to all the celebs who say in magazines about puberty and how they dealt with it. I hope this helps some other girls like me! :))."
--Hanna, 11

"I am always worrying about when I will get my period and where. I keep a sweatshirt or jacket with me so if it happens I can tie it around waist so no one will see."
--Holly, 11

"Madi, 12- I wasn't really going to get in a fight about something as stupid as that. I just read over what I posted a long time ago...I am so sorry! I sounded so rude! I didn't mean for it to sound that way. Sorry, I should have said it in a nicer way."
--Me

"Okay I got my period, but what gets me is my breast. I get attention I don't want from boys. I feel really bad. But, I thought to myself and just ignore them or if you just can't tell them you feel uncomfortable of them looking at and if they could quit or quicker way "What are you looking at?" And if you still are feeling that way just talk to a female teacher on how you feel or mom if you can reach her quicker."
--Michelle, 11

"What's a discharge?"
--Sumbuddy

"The toughest part about going through puberty is (the period) talking to my mom about it. I know my dad is no help, and my little 5 year-old sister knows nothing about it. And I haven't gotten my period yet and I'm scared of asking my mom about when she got hers. I might get mine tomorrow for all I know!"
--Rhayna, 11

"I really need help. I couldn't sleep last night because I was thinking about this. I volunteer at a stable. Some of the other volunteers were misbehaving. So all of us had to have a meeting with the woman who owns the stable. Before she had said I was the "Sweetest" kid. And I admire her A LOT. And at the meeting she said something about not cussing. And I couldn't help think, I was cussing like crazy on Thursday with my friend. But we weren't cussing around other people so no one found out. But she seemed angry at me. I said nothing the whole meeting and let everyone else talk. I was scared she thinks I did something. I am never going to cuss again in fear someone might hear and I would get in trouble. I LUV the woman who owns the barn and I want her to like me. I admire her so much. But she seemed angry at the meeting. Is she just angry at me? Or that she didn't know this was going on in her barn? What should I do? I have no clue when the next time I will her her is! HELP! I was crying in bed earlier. I don't want to disappoint her! Is this just the emotions that come with puberty and it is really no big deal or what?"
--Madi :)-), 12

"Worst part or Puberty is when you get depressed and you get pimples. Especially when you have a boyfriend..."
--SceanGirl

"Mariah, 13- I don't think about BOYS BOYS BOYS BOYS. I think about GUYS GUYS GUYS GUYS LOL! SOME R JUST SO *BEEP* HOT!"
--Madi :)-), 12

"I need help to get my stomach to stop hurting."
--Ann, 11

"How do I know what to do when it does happen. My mom won't tell me what I want to know because she doesn't want to lose her Lulu. And a lot of girls don't know what to do because they have their period at school."
--Luna, 11

"Everyone else in my grade has started their period. I haven't so I guess the mood swings are the hardest for me. It is sometimes very hard for me to get through some of the hard stressful emotions that I feel. In my school I feel a lot of pure pressure too. I fell very left out. I know what to expect and I find myself every time going to the bathroom praying oh god plz give me my period! I'm pathetic! I'm scared and I don't like to talk about my feelings because every time I do some one laughs. I wish I had a true friend who understood."
--Natasha, 11

"I totally luv puberty except for cramps. Boys like me now."
--Emily, 9

"Yes I'm old people I just want to give you advice don't be scared! It's totally normal I remember when I was in 7th grade and my breast was growing and it was really tender so tender I cried! That's normal because now I had a 32d and I see why but yeah puberty is actually cool when you learn about it."
--Older dan all

"I hate blood so I am scared I mean WAY scared about the big changes."
--Aware, 11

"My parents have said that when you hit puberty you have arm pit hair (etc.). Well, I have had a mustache since I was 7 does that mean I started since I was 7? also not to be racist but I'm Mexican, and they are said to grow more hair than usual. Will that affect anything?"
--Sergio, 13

"When should I expect my period? what if it happens when I'm in the middle of something really important? why do people have a period at an early age? (my grandma had her period at age 8)."
--Olivia, 10

"Albana when you have a period your stomach usually hurts..."
--Theresa

"I am 13 and I don't have my period...I have ALL the signs (if u no wat I mean) but ppl actually make fun of me 4 not having it yet. I only weigh 94 pounds and I am 5 1 =[."
--Gurlygirl, 13

"It's hard because when you have everything else you are supposed to have...Mustache, etc. And you don't have a deeper voice yet but know this, Just think you're not alone, I don't have one either yet...I am a little depressed but I live."
--Justin, 13

"I already have a bunch of that stuff (breasts, hair etc) should I expect my period?"
--Jessica, 10

"Being way behind in developing."
--Esther, 13

"I deal with puberty by talking about with my best friends. And I feel comfortable doing that because we all go through the same problems in life and even though we all are at different stages in puberty that gives us a chance to share what each of us might go through and what not. Puberty is kind of a hard thing to deal with, especially with girls but it is a part of life that every girl and woman go through. So we might as well try to get used to it now."
--Annisa, 12

"The toughest part about going through puberty (my period), is the pain and the worry. I talk with my mom about it, and she tells me what to expect. Then I just don't worry about it, because it's really not a big deal!"
--Somthinglikechicken

"I got my first period! In a special place and time. At Bromley Mt. on the first day of states. So now I'm trying to fined out my cycle days...But I wont another calendar. Can you help me with that and some other things. First I want to now when I could start using tampons. What kind of tampons to use. Also what other kinds of pads should I try..."
--Leyte, 12

"Well the toughest part is that when your puberty is started when you don't know when it is coming on. You might be in class and all of a sudden you see a red spot on your pants, and it's not a marker dot than you start to see a whole lot of it."
--Love lee, 11

"What part of your body hurts when you have a period."
--Albana

"The worst part of puberty is you have to talk to your dad! I was scared but my dad understood...And the random erections!"
--Devon, 10

"Hayley, 12 and me. Lets not get in a fight over this. EVERYGIRL IS DIFFRENT. There really is not range. EVERY ONE IS DIFFRENT. So some get it when they r 8 and some when they r 16. Ist okay. Most commonly girls get it between 9 and 15. Some girls do get it later or early thought! LUV YA!"
--Madi : -), 12

"Hey girls. You females out there must be thinking the same thing every girl is usually thinking about: BOYS, BOYS, BOYS! You can't keep away from them at all. Submit your opinions about the opposite sex."
--Mariah, 13

"I have been discharging for a year now when will I get my period!"
--Sami, 12

"Well for me the toughest part of puberty is when a girl has her period during school and then you'll have to go to your teacher and say it but if your teacher is a boy ( and boys don't have periods) tell them you need to call your mom and if they ask why say it's important or that it's a girl thing and if you have a girl teacher and you feel comfortable with them then you can tell them or if you don't you can go to a girl teacher that you do trust. Or when you start and you where at home for it start brining pads to school."
--Alicia, 10

"Rachel, 13: I want to cry. All my friends have their periods and they think I'm weird. My mom thinks I should've had it by now I'm really scared. Please help." Trust me. You will be fine. My mom got hers when she was thirteen, and her friends and 14 and 15. As long as you have a few changes by now, you'll be fine. I know I'm younger then you but trust me please!"
--Angie, 11

"I feel like breaking down in tears every time I see somebody with breasts! I'm still flat, no armpit hair, and peach fuzz in the other area. EVERYBODY'S changing! Is there something wrong with me? P. S. What does discharge look like?"
--Anonymous, 11

"PLEASE you guys! It seems like everybody else is changing except me! I'm 11 and 1/2 with no discharge, no breast buds, no hair, nothing! PLEASE HELP Advicegirl and Madi, 12. What's wrong with me?"
--Angie, 11

"GUYS HELP ON THIS! I'm getting these cramps really down low, like where my bladder is and a little bit lower where my...Um...Area starts. Is this normal? PLEASE help!"
--Angie, 11

"I get embarrassed when I have to buy tampons every month."
--Sharon, 11

"The toughest part of going through Puberty for me is I think getting my period. I already have medium sized breasts and pubic hair. But I don't have it yet and I'm real worried and anxious about when I will get it. What If I'm in school. Oh, I'm so Afraid. Also I'm afraid to talk to my mother about this kind of thing."
--Antoinette, 13

"Oh, yikes! That one week a month is just terrible (girls, ya know what I'm talking about)! I guess I just deal with it like everybody else, but still, all week, I'm just fed up with worrying about it!"
--Rebekah, 12

"Madi, it's not a big deal. Just tell your mom. If she's anything like mine, she'll understand and help you through it..."
--Rebekah, 12

"I get erections and wet dreams all the time no big deal. I don't have that much body hair only my privates. My penis has grown about an inch. I have also become more muscular. Erections can be annoying especially if they happen at the wrong time. I'm moving on to 14 I can't wait to get it over with."
--A person, 13

"I am getting hair in you no where and I am really emotional. I am getting spots all over my face and don't no if I've started puberty. Plz help."
--Eilishe, 11

"Siria, 13: Thanks! I should be getting my period soon and I think it is really helpful just 2 have an idea of what she might say instead of being totally clueless! Thanks again. Liz, 12: Okay Liz. From what u say I would go ahead and keep some pads handy for when u do start. I would say u are nearing in on it and it might only be a few months away. Hope this Helps! Advicegirl: hey advice girl I know what u mean. I'll be helping if I can! Morgan, 12: No. This isn't true. But I would suggest not wrestle with him anymore. It might make ur breasts sensitive, I mean they r already sensitive and it could hurt! Ashley 10: I totally know what u mean! Here are some ideas. Do u have an old tee shirt that is white and too tight? U could wear that as a bra until u find the courage 2 ask her. Here is another idea. Ask her "Hey mom? R we going shopping soon 'cuz I think I might wanna get a bra." Whatever u do, be brave! Puberty is a hard time in everybody's life. Angela: That sounds like a tough situation. I would talk 2 ur mom about it. Honestly, us girls on the internet cant help u much. U should talk 2 ur mom. Aoife: it really just depends on ur school! It is there chose. I believe most do it in 5th grade. But some also do it in 6th. Sarah, 13: I agree Sarah. U should talk 2 ur mom Hannah."
--Madi : -), 12

"I think it's the toughest to deal with break-outs and heavy periods. When you have breakouts you have to wait a while before they go away, they make you feel like you have to hide your face from the world. Heavy periods mess up your pants and give you massive cramps. You might feel moody and not want to be around people..."
--Emily, 12

"It's scary to think the pad may not work and the would will know. But plenty of girls know what's going on!"
--Diane, 11

"I have a great trick if you stain your underwear. If you use black underwear the stain will not show! Or with white underwear hydrogen peroxide (the stuff that bubbles you put on cuts) will wash it away! I use it ALL the time. It works wonders!"
--Diane, 11

"I think the toughest part is your period. When I started mine, I went to the bathroom and saw blood on the toilet! But it will be okay. Luckily I don't have cramps but I do have mood swings. But how I deal with it is choose if u want pads or tampons. Tip: if you're going swimming, wear tampons!"
--Kelli, 13

"The toughest part of going through puberty is wearing a bra. I just go with the flow and don't worry about it. I am also going to have my period soon because I am always getting cramps. Can you give me some tips?"
--Anonymous, 12

"I hate being a girl! Guys r so free! No boobs no period! Just the voice change thing and hair! And boys don't have any drama!"
--Millicent, 11

"The hardest thing about going through puberty is when your breast start to grow and it hurts really bad when someone like bumps them or something. But how I handle it is I where a padded bra like on a gym day so if someone bumps them it doesn't hurt as bad."
--Briana, 10

"I just got my period, so I don't think it's a good idea use tampons yet, so I use pads. You might be able to tell by my user name, but I am addicted to soccer. I can't use pads while I'm playing, and I would die if I missed a game."
--Soccer Addict, 12

"I am a total athlete/tomboy, so most boys think that I won't go through puberty. So, when I started developing, one boy asked me: "Why I stuffed my bra?" I told him: "I'm a normal girl, you idiot." He said: "But your a tomboy."."
--Soccer Addict, 12

"The toughest part would be for us girls because we get more changes in our lifetime than boys. We go through a lot that would make us worry. To be honest, I haven't gone through many changes but just a few."
--M&M, 12

"Lol, I haven't got my period either, but I suddenly became grumpy and Emily, 10, I'm getting lots of cramps too!"
--Yessica, 11

"I'm so happy because my school is an all girls school and I can talk about puberty in class to my buds but we still use code names like 'have you started ur red blood project' and my teacher doesn't even know what we are talking about and there is no boys listening in on our conversations!"
--Aoife: -), 11

"Hey advicegirl I used to discharge normally (white) but now it's all different types of colours (light green, yellow etc. ) what is wrong with me? PLEASE HELP ME!"
--Aoife: -), 11

"To Kyky: Just tell ur mom that u are getting teased in school because u don't wear a bra! This may not be exactly true but she might consider getting u a bra then : -) hope this could help! If u need any more advice ask me!"
--Aoife: -), 11

"Me: omg really? I don't know that. I read in a book that is was 9-15. And then I read some girls can get it as early as 8! Sorry ppl! Mistake! Forgive me!"
--Madi : -), 12

"The toughest part is that it seems that it's only happening to you and no one else!"
--Richard, 11

"Dear Me: No offence, but Madi, 12 was just saying what was normal. In most of the books about puberty I read, it says girls get their period between 8-15. Plus, it highly rare that a girl gets her period after 16. My moms friend had to get surgery to get her ova REMOVED when she was 16 because they were cancerous. Perhaps Madi, 12 hadn't ever heard of a girl getting her period after sixteen, because in most books it says between 8-15. And in class they teach you what they read in the books."."
--Hayley, 12

"I haven't hit my period yet but my mom told me not to panic. This is just part of life a girl has to go through. I know it stinks. You don't have to tell your friends when you hit your period do what you want to."
--It's me, 11

"K. To ppl who say it doesn't hurt to have ur period, it might not hurt u but some girls get cramps. I have been there done that. So it might hurt. But it doesn't hurt all girls. Just wanted to clear this up! Thanks! Luv ya!"
--Madi : -), 12

"I have a really bad odor."
--Chanin, 9

"I've noticed a lot of people saying, when will my period come, when will I grow a chest? and other things, enjoy life while you don't have to worry about if your skirt is stained or if your straps are showing, you will get everything when it is time."
--Polarbearluvr, 13

"K: I now this must be hard for u. And why except the boy problem? I think we make a great team! We r always giving advice to the same ppl! And our advice is the same lol! K. So here is what I would do, u know I cant make ur breasts grow, so here's what I think: Ignore those other girls who make fun of u and stick with ur friends. If some1 calls u a nerd say "Well yeah! I KNOW ur a nerd! Every1 does!" Then walk off. And hmm maybe this when they tell u that u don't have any breasts say "Well that's ’Äòcuz I'm not fat like u!" I have been thinking all night about what u could say. And the boys. Don't worry. U'll get breast sometimes. Don't even worry about these boys. They are all 2 young! I don't like a guy until he is a least 13! ’ÄòCUZ OTHER WISE THEY JUST LOOK LIKE LITTLE KIDS! Hope this helps! Now, a note 2 ALL girls with periods. Please just tell me what u told ur mom when u got ur period and what she did in response. PLEASE! I NEED some more help. I have gotten the pep talk now I kind of need 2 know what 2 expect!"
--Madi : -), 12

"Madi : -), 12: Here's ur answer: My mom just Xplained everything 2 me when I told her. It wasn't that bad at all. And she didn't tell any of the guys in my family. If u think ur mom will tell ur dad or whoever about this, mayB the best thing 2 do is tell her how u feel about that. Ur mom will understand Bcuz she used to be ur age, 2. Hope this helps..."
--Shoot4themoon, 13

"Aoife: -), 11: Thanks but my mom won't let me get 1! She says I have to wait till my breast start to show more!"
--D0t123, 11

"I have been in puberty for over a year, and my breasts are bigger, and I have had a lot of pubic hair for over a year now, when will I start me period?"
--Cortney, 11

"Hey u guyz...I haven't started yet, but I have Discharge- I've been having it since last month (Feb. ) and I have a twin sister, she is about at the same pace. I have small breasts- though they r bigger than my twin sister- & I need 2 know when I will start?"
--Kenrox-Kendall, 11

"I started my period at a VERY young age, I was only 9, well I had my spotting then but I really started at 10. But I have been bearing this for 2 years and sometimes it is really hard to cope because my period is normally very heavy. I can't believe I am going to have to bear with this for a whole lifetime, I think. Thnx. Luv Nikki."
--Nikki, 12

"Well, I have been wearing a training bra for a while now and I am waiting for my period. Lucky for me, my mom is the kind of person to talk to about this stuff. By the way, do not worry. Don't be afraid to tell your mom. All girls have to go through it. Also, don't be ashamed to wear a bra. All girls will eventually wear one. It doesn't matter if it is visible through your shirt. Try your best and! GOOD LUCK!"
--Jessica, 11

"I haven't had my period yet, but I do wear bras. :) There's this girl in my math class her chest, fuller than mine. I want mine fuller to, but what I have learned is that if you're fuller earlier then bigger later, much later. But if you wait then you'll be proud that you did. You won't have to worry about your breast are to big because that's so uncomfortable."
--Naughdia, 10

"The toughest part is getting my period."
--Anonymous

"I have been started puberty al least for a year now. I don't have much body hair yet only in between my legs. I get erections all the time and wet dreams."
--Bob, 13

"I need help my period hasn't started yet I think but I am getting lots of cramps! HELP! B-ex."
--Emily, 10

"I don't know. But I would really like to!"
--Emily, 9

"I have really bad neck problems am I starting puberty or my period?"
--Brooke, 13

"OMG I just started my period an in 2 days I am going to camp for three days and I am so scared to ask my mom to let me wear tampons!"
--Meredith, 12

"The toughest part is my period and I start at 10 years old and when it happen it was in class and everybody laughs at me and my teacher give me tampons and pads and call my mom to take me to the hospital. After I did that I went to a sleep over and I start BLEEDING that night when every one except my bff called her parents and took me home! Ps I hate my PERIOD ALWAYS HAVE PROTECTION WITH YOU DON'T BLEED IN PUBLIC DO NOT WEAR A DRESS OR WHITE PANTS OK!"
--Jacqueline B, 13

"Hey =] okay well I am about to turn thirteen in a month and my brother and I wrestle a lot. I'm just now getting breast and I'm afraid that if he keeps hitting them they wont grow because that is what my friends say. Is this true...HELP!"
--Morgan, 12

"I have not had my p yet, I heard that some girls got it at school and that a girl made a temporary pad with a sock! I'm worried but my mom told me that hers started in the summer and so I'm hoping that mine will too."
--Amanda, 11

"I think waiting for your period is difficult. That's what I'm doing now. Just be patient-they'll come when you're ready. It's a good idea to talk to your mum before you start."
--Emz, 12

"I am too shy to tell my mom I want a bra."
--Ashley, 10

"I find it hard: ( peeps in my class are older than me but in puberty terms very immature I try having relationships with girls but they hold me back! I'm almost through P my hair is getting really long and my well...Eeerrr pride has almost completely grown."
--William, 11

"What is a erection? Please explain as much as you can. I didn't understand in the puberty section!"
--Mike, 10

"Last year I had problems involving excessive exercise and weight loss. My period had stopped. Now that my eating is back to normal and I've gained weight, my period still hasn't come back! Should I be worried?"
--Angela

"I don't know what to do, I haven't got my P yet but I'm worried ’Äòcause I heard that it can start at school! I don't know what to do, Should I have a pad in my backpack just in case or should I just stay cool about it? PLEASE HELP! My mom's pads are TOO BIG!"
--Hawkshadow, 11

"It's a hard life for me I'm going through it and believe me I'm almost at the finish line. I developed PB very early at 8 rare. PEEPS AT SCHOOL R TRYIN TO BULLY ME LOL IT SOOOOOOOO ANNOYIN I'M TRYIN TO GET WID DA GIRLS BUT MY REP IS GOIN DOW DA PAN! All these immature peeps in ma class grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr."
--William, 11

"I have my period a lot."
--Stacy, 13

"Evie 11- When u hit puberty u probably will get mood swings a lot! And u might get cramps coming up 2 ur period! But remember the most important thing is be happy about the way that u are growing find something that u like about puberty! But remember if u have breasts wear a bra that fits u properly! Get ur mum 2 help u 2 find a bra that fits u right! When u get ur period tell ur mum first and then think about telling others bcuz they will wonder why ur happy 1 min and depressed the next! So if u want ne more tips ask me!"
--Aoife: -), 11

"HELP my periods have started and I don't no what to do and my legs are getting really hairy but I guess it just happens and you deal but it is really soar when you have your periods."
--Andria, 10

"Hi Madi well I got my period 2 years ago and it was weird for me to tell my mom bcuz she didn't get hers until she was 14, but she was happy and said "You're growing up, that's good. Now we have something else in common! Do you have any questions?" She also said that periods could be a pain but she had learned a lot of "Secrets" on how to deal over the years so she would try to help me when I needed it. Sometimes we go out for "PMS Ice Cream" which is totally funny! Good luck with telling your mom, I'm sure she'll be glad."
--Siria, 13

"I am in 5th class does anyone know if I will get the talk this year or in 6th class? HELP."
--Aoife: -), 11

"Um, excuse me but, this question is kinda weird but I hate having weird talks with my dad!"
--Rain, 10

"I want to know when I'm going to start my period. It's driving me crazy. I look online everyday to try to find out but I never can find anything. I'm 12 got 32a bra size armpit hair for about a year discharge for about a year and a half pubic hair for a year. I also have mood swings and cramps and cravings. My mom started when she was 13 both my sisters at 11 and 12. I want it to come like know. Advicegirl please help me."
--Liz, 12

"My breasts are growing! : (."
--Mesha, 11

"Hannah- that is terrible. Have you ever tried telling your mom that story? I know how painful it is, but I feel so sorry for you. I hope you can find a way to work it out :)."
--Sarah, 13

"DOt-123: Don't worry what u should do is wear a training bra that is the smallest size u can get! If that is too tight then ask a female shop assistant to help and soon ur breasts will look fuller!"
--Aoife: -), 11

"Hey embarrassed-to-say: Coming up to ur period you will get cranky! When u wake up in the morning ur nipples may feel sore! And u may get cramps! I think u might know the rest but always keep a pad in ur bag or locker!"
--Aoife: -), 11

"There's SO much stuff that comes with it! Getting a bra, getting your period, (And feeling weird with a pad on. ) Mood swings, And A LOT more! The best way I deal with it is to take a hot bath."
--Mo

"You all should stop worrying about your breast size it will come soon enough. So enjoy life as a youthful happy person! I love you all!"
--Gabby

"Madi, 12: You shouldn't say you will get your period between 9 and 15. Not everyone gets it between then. Some people can get it as late as 17."
--Me

"Hey ya'll. I'm the girl who didn't tell her mom about her period. Well, if ya'all could just tell me what ur moms did when you told them I think I would feel a little better. I'm not asking for much."
--Madi : -), 12

"The toughest part of going through puberty for me is having to have my period because it gets annoying when I have to go out of my classroom to go to the bathroom and change my pad. One of the good things about puberty is the size of your breasts because that way you can wear sleeveless dresses. I deal with it by just going to the bathroom and changing my pad anyway even though I think it is annoying."
--Willow, 13

"Yo to everyone out there who said they are "Scared" of having their period, IT IS NO BIG DEAL! IT DOES NOT HURT @ ALL, OK? it's just a totally natural occurrence that has been happening to women since they first existed, and you can't change that, it'll happen sooner or later. Don't be afraid of it, that'll only make it worse for you. Get as much information as you need to feel comfortable with the concept. GO CAVALIERS! Love Labron."
--Cavalier_fan1392, 13

"I sometimes feel left out because ALL of my friends are wearing bras and I am not. It makes me sad because they all have been asked out or looked at by cute boys. I think because I am flat chested I have not been asked out."
--Katelin, 11

"Probably the first time I got my period, I was scared to death. And also that a lot of kids in my grade haven't gone through it yet, so I feel all alone and stuff. ;-)."
--Claire, 11

"Everything about puberty is hard. Mood swings, driven insane by the new feelings that come along. I feel like I am the only one in my grade that just happens to be going through the emotional part. Other girls, if you can't find how to confess your crush to the guy, turn to your parents. On my part I have to say do NOT take it fast! Say hi, become friends, THEN confess your crush. When it comes to periods, whether you use tampons or pads is totally on you; I suggest starting with pads. This all is normal, so all you need to do is take care of yourself, trust your close friends, and keep your cool."
--Sonja, 12

"The toughest part of going through puberty is depression. But don't be depressed about it!"
--Marketa, 13

"Well I've got pubic hair."
--Sadio, 11

"Emily, 10: It's Normal. Check out the puberty page, there is stuff all about it!"
--D0t123, 11

"The toughest part of going through puberty is first periods ('cause it hurts a woman's stomach) then it's pimples ('cause they r soo embarrassing ) then I can't even tell u it's breasts lol yea I know all about dis."
--Taylor, 11

"I haven't gotten my period yet, but that nasty white stuff has been in my underwear for a long time! I just want my period already so that it wont happen in an embarrassing place!"
--Janelle, 12

"Ummmm......Well I haven't started my period yet but I know it's soon but I have this stuff that's yellowish white I think it's called discharge or something and it's so uncomfortable I HATE IT!"
--Amber, 11

"Wow well I haven't really started yet except for my chest. I'm kinda scared about talking about things like that with my parents. Next Wednesday we are having a talk about puberty with the teachers in the school! Do you think that every single kid needs to hear about the yucky periods and things that are going on in their bodies. And thank you for the information on puberty I feel a lot stronger now about growing up."
--Montana, 09

"Well I think the toughest part about going through my period is the pain in the lower part of my stomach. It hurts very badly but I deal with it by trying not to think about it and closing my eyes and trying to relax. I usually spend most of my time during my period in my room, it helps to be alone without a little sibling asking you what's wrong. At least for me it is."
--Valerie, 12

"OMG! SHE IS WAY OVERPROTECTIVE!" --Madi : -), 12. Talk to another trusted adult (that's a girl) for help and when you do get it and you don't want your mom to know till later use tp (toilet paper) as a pad. Talk to a trusted adult like I said. Now do u have any advice for me? my PROBLEM IS I don't have my breasts yet and every1 except my friend calls me a nerd and stuff! And lately boys r acting weird around me like girls with breasts. It's hard. Help! YOU HAVE MORE EXPERIENCE I have knowledge of what goes on. Except the boy problem I mentioned. We could make a good team."
--D0t123, 11

"Jamie, 13. You can start anywhere between the age of 9-16! And a period is nothing to brag about! When you get it, it's the Pits! I recommend the book "Girlology". And if You start under the age of 11, It's 1-2 years till an expectable period, Start at 11-12 Up to 2-3 years, Start over 12, up to 4-5 years!"
--D0t123, 11

"Hi I've not got my periods yet and but I've been getting white stains in my knickers for about 8months when will my periods start."
--Natalie, 10

"I have a pad at home and I think am bleeding right now but I got used to it because the first time I got my p is when I was 9 years old."
--Michelle, 10

"I'm afraid I will get my period when I'm 12! My nana got hers when she was 16, my mom 15, my sis 14, my other sis 13 so I'm probably get my period next year but don't worry if u get yours late people just grow in different ways! Good luck!"
--Colleen, 11

"I got small breasts + pubic hair. I got discharge but no periods. Where are they!"
--Sarah, 12

"I am 12 I'm a boy my penis is normally 2 inches longer than when I was eleven it was only that big when I had an erection this makes me freaked out because I have hair above my friend in my pants and on it. I'm excited and nervous!"
--Logan, 12

"The toughest part about puberty is that all these things that are happening don't seem normal and you feel different from everybody but the truth is...It is happening to everyone around your age. It's kinda a cool thing because when it's over you feel like an adult. [=."
--Kellie [=

"I wish my breasts would grow faster can some one tell what me to do all my friends tell me to stuff but I don't want to like ewwwwwwwwwww."
--Keisha, 13

"I'm 11 years old and I have puberty. My friends don't have puberty and my breasts are way bigger then my friends and I have period and they don't. I have hair between my legs and I feel like I'm growing way to fast. I have the biggest breasts in my grade, which is 5th grade. The boys sometimes stare at my chest and they sometimes say to other boys like "Hey don't look at her chest" and it feels kind of weird. My bra cup size is like 36 and it feels weird because no one else has it. Why am I growing way faster then everyone in my grade?"
--Jennifer, 11

"I'm really scared to tell my mom because I'm afraid she'll tell my brothers or other family members. I really don't want them to know. My mom has asked me several times if she could she me (naked) all I say is no, my breasts started to grow last year and they hurt. There was this guy who bumped to me and I almost screamed (gladly I didn't). So, should I tell my mom? I'm really scared! Please help me! By the way, I wear a 30a or a 32aa bra. I haven't had my period yet, I hope not yet soon! I really don't know how to tell my mom. When she was a little girl--One day at school, she saw blood coming out of you know where. We'll, she didn't know what was happening. So she decided to ask her mom and her mom told her about the whole period thing. She was all freaked out. I bet I will too even though I kind of know about it. I don't know if I should wear a tampon yet. I've grown some hair you know where. It's been getting longer (scary). I haven't told my mom a thing about this..."
--Can't tell you, 12

"My mom keeps telling me about puberty. Now I'm all freaked out "When am I going to wear a bra? And tampons? And the rest of my friends have bras. When am I going to get mine? I've been developing for over a few years now! I'm so embarrassed not fitting in..."
--Alanna, 10

"Hey guys, relax! It's no big deal! It's normal. I betcha it won't be NEARLY this stressful in maybe at the most 2-3 years? Chill-ax! (Okay, maybe I was lying a little, you period and all this stuff IS a big deal, but you should chill-ax about it! )."
--Elizabeth, 11

"You can share what it feels like for you, but don't say it'll hurt for everyone or it won't! Different girls develop at different times, I know what it feels like for me but I'm a little uncomfortable sharing."
--Alana, 11

"The penis getting longer."
--Tom, 11

"Embarrassed to say, 11. I think I understand. Myself I hate my period but I understand how you might want it if all your friends have it. Once you start to get discharge and mood swings you are about 6 months away. At least that is what I was told. Hope this helps! Bye!"
--Madi : -), 12

"Well it will be tuff at first but you get used to it."
--Faith, 10

"Embarrassed to say, 11. You can start any where between 8 and 16! And remember, every1 starts at different times! Don't freak! And a period gets u in the dumps! Cramps, bloating, emotions.! It's terrible! Be thankful u don't have the curse* *a.k.a. a period."
--D0t123, 11

"To Cassie: You never know exactly when you will your period. On the weeks before you get your period, you may feel crampy or maybe even puffy. You may get your period in a little while, or maybe you'll get it in a few years. No one knows exactly! P. S to all you other girls, ask me for advice. I may be younger or older than you, but I sure know a heck of a lot about this stuff! Right your comment addressed to Advicegirl."
--Advicegirl

"Puberty is ok it happens to everyone don't be scared of it..."
--Alice

"To Angelica: If you haven't found out yet, you basically go on a ride of emotions, some good and some bad. Also, you may feel crampy or puffy. When these happen, try to eat healthy, (always eat healthy! ) take a walk or maybe write in a journal. Also, you may want to put some warmth over the places where you have cramps, which will probably be in your stomach or your back. Maybe get into a warm bathtub or put a hot/warm water bottle over your stomach. These may help. Hope it does!"
--Advice girl

"Sorry everybody, just want to let you know I can't respond to EVERY question, but I'll do my best to respond to some!"
--Advicegirl

"Pimples and breasts! So embarrassing!"
--Anonymous

"I hate having friends who are girls, because they, like, accidentally say bra strap or some thing and then there's this big, awkward silence. I just try to ignore it. Also, I hate having The Talk with my mom because she knows absolutely NOTHING about what I go through."
--Nick, 13

"I got my period about 3 months ago...It stinks your hungry cranky and you feel like your going to hit someone."
--Kristin, 11

"Comment to "Embarrassed to say", don't ya worry, I got my period in January, and I'm 13! And by the way, be happy you don't have it, It's really bothers you and it's uncomfortable, and you are talking to someone that was exactly like you in your age!"
--Marketa, 13

"Embarrassed to say, 11: Don't sweat it, everyone's different, so ur body will start menstruation when it's ready. I didn't get mine till I was 12. The norm is anywhere from 8-12. U can also talk 2 ur mom about it. If she was started puberty later than most ppl, chances r u might, 2. Hope this helps!"
--Natalie, 13

"My parents won't let me get a bra, and in PE the strain on my breasts is so bad I once cried because it hurt so much! You know what the teacher did, she offered me an ICE PACK! I'm just like "An ICE PACK for my breasts?!" "I don't think so!" And it was REALLY embarrassing. The teacher told me to talk to my Mom about getting a bra. MOST EMBARASSING DAY EVER! (except for when I accidentally peed on the teacher in Pre-school)!"
--Hannah

"I just went through a major growth spurt. I am only 9 and my breasts are growing! Now my sisters want to pinch them, and it HURTS! How can I get them to stop doing it, or it to stop hurting?!"
--Morgan, 9

"It's my fifth time getting my period and it really stinks. People out there that are afraid, don't be scared. It doesn't hurt. Just act normal and get on w/ your life. :)."
--Adaline, 12

"JJ, 11. Not a tampon for sure. But I got my period when I was ten. My Mom didn't get hers until she was 15. Just listen to your body and look for signs. You probably wont get your at the very same time as you mom. But if you start to have discharge. Maybe a month or 2 after that you could start wearing one."
--Madi : -), 12

"Jamie, 13. OMG! You are only 13! My Mom didn't get hers until she was 15! Everyone gets it at different times. Your friends are only bragging 'cuz they probably HATE periods and are trying to turn it into something good. Be happy for them. They are trying to make the best out of the situation. You will get yours in time. 1 or 2 years after your breast start developing."
--Madi : -), 12

"AMY, 11. You are at the perfect age for breasts. Lots of girls have them at 11. I do. THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH YOU!"
--Madi : -), 12

"Nia, 10. So we can feed babies!"
--Madi : -), 12

"Thanks a bunch Amber. I just have a few more questions. 1) Should I be 100% honest when I tell my Mom? 2) It is really hard because she got her period when she was 15! And I am 11 (I am 12 in May but I like to call myself 12 because I hate it when people go "WOW! You are 12!". 3) I think I will have to grow up right away. 4) I AM WORRIED WHAT SHE WILL THINK! Will someone help me?!?!?!?! PLEASE!?!?!?" --Madi : -), 12 COME ON PEOPLE! I NEED HELP!"--Madi : -), 12. It's no big deal! When you talk to your mom she'll understand! Every girl has 1 but not at the same time, week year, etc! Be 100% honest. She'll understand you are growing up and should let you do it on your own. Unless she's overprotective. Like I'm getting my period soon but my breasts are NOT here yet! Weird, huh? like I said we all grow at different rates! Hope this helps! =p!" --D0t123, 11 OMG! SHE IS WAY OVERPROTETTIVE!"
--Madi : -), 12

"Well I've got pubic hair and armpit hair, everyone in my class has got an Adam's apple but I don't and their voice has gone low and they make fun of me."
--Paul, 12

"ALL BOYS READ THIS, because I'm clever and I know. I have only 2 and a half stages left in puberty and that's armpit hair, facial hair and I'm starting voice change. Talk to a friend that clearly has puberty or you know he does (make sure he is a friend) it works with me. All boys have a desire for voice change (you might not think it but you do) Know If you get a lump near the top of your neck it means you have something called an Adam's apple and your voice will deepen as it gets bigger. You have to avoid the talk until puberty is very clearly in you, you will see what I mean as you progress. Lay off the people who get periods and breasts, remember they probably started before you and they are going through a hard time too you know. Remember don't look backwards look forwards."
--Alex, 12

"The hardest part I would say is the hair and the period because first of all when you have hair people make fun of you and second of all when you have your period you have seriously hurting cramps in your stomach. They way I deal with it is say I'm going through a stage called puberty. And for my period I would take a Midol to make my stomach feel better and it works!"
--Markia, 10

"Yer hey everyone ill just like to tell u guys I started my period when I was 13 and trust me it's horrible. When the blood dries on the pad it stinks n ewwww...The whole lot of it is gross. Anyway don't want to scare u lot who haven't started yet, you'll get used to it :)."
--X-teen-x

"I got mines at my aunt house I was kind of scared to tell someone but I told my auntie I had a girls problem and she understood. She called my mom to tell her and she was happy that I had my period I was so confused how the way she reacted to the talk with her she said it's ok it all about being a girl. To all the girls who think it's a bad thing, it isn't. It's all about being a girl, taking care of your self, and showing that you are growing up so don't stress over it. It's ok. Just make sure you change ever time and don't let it over flow."
--Tinkerbell-girl

"Hello I am 10 and I just talked to my mom and she said that I am getting my period it is a little weird but if you think your getting it tell your mom they will know if you are and do not scared it happens to every one it is ok."
--Sierra, 10

"My breasts are small. My friend is my age and hers are like a 14 year olds! My little sister is 8 and hers are a bit bigger than mine. How can I get mine to grow?"
--Sarah, 11

"I haven't started my period yet and almost all my friends have. They brag about it and I think something's wrong with me. I want to cry. Even my mom thinks I should have it by now. What do I do? = (."--Jamie, 13. You can start anywhere between the age of 9-16! And a period is nothing to brag about! When you get it, it's the Pits! I recommend the book "Girlology". And if You start under the age of 11, It's 1-2 years till an expectable period, Start at 11-12 Up to 2-3 years, Start over 12, up to 4-5 years!"
--D0t123, 11

"I haven't started my period yet and almost all my friends have. They brag about it and I think something's wrong with me. I want to cry. Even my mom thinks I should have it by now. What do I do? = (." --Jamie, 13."All my friends have there periods and I feel so alone. They have their own inside jokes and I don't know what to do. They think something's wrong with me. Help me!" --Hailey "I want to cry. All my friends have their periods and they think I'm weird. My mom thinks I should've had it by now I'm really scared. Please help." --Rachel, 13 "I'm 13 and haven't had my period. My mom got it at early 12 and my grandma at 11. All my friends have it to. I'm stressing out. Help." --Hannah, 13. EVERY1 starts at different times! Remember, you can start anywhere between 9-16!"
--D0t123, 11

"If I feel the need to use the bathroom and I hold the urine from flowing will it affect my period?"
--Kayla, 10

"It's tough. Puberty makes you so different. You wake up one morning and feel like a stranger to yourself! It's hard to focus, too. At some points it feels like a burden not to yell like mad. I guess were not 100% kids anymore."
--C. J., 12

"I think the toughest part of puberty is definitely the hair. Sooo annoying! However, I haven't gotten my period yet."
--P, 10

"I'm scared to get my period. It seems really scary."
--Ashlyn, 11

"I live with my dad how do I tell him."
--Vicki, 11

"Hey. I have this black dots on my legs because my hair don't grow I'm tried of not wearing swimsuits and skirts. Can you help get this stuff of my legs?"
--Chinica, 12

"The toughest part of puberty is the mood swings. One minute I'm really happy, the next I'm running around yelling at everyone. I just try to control myself, take a deep breath, and deal with the fact I'm going through puberty, and this is going to happen."
--Anna, 10

"Guess what I just got breasts a couple days ago! YEAH!"
--Meredith, 11

"I want to get my period so bad. All my friends have theirs and I'm older than all of them except for 1. I have been feeling very tired and get cranky. I don't know why. But I need someone to tell me about when I am going to get my period or about stages of getting your periods. Okay? So please help me! Thanks."
--Embarrassed to say, 11

"I am 11 and I was reading the puberty pages and I have experienced most of the symptoms, do you think I will get my period soon?"
--Aoife, 11

"I just got on my period. I hate it."
--Tamara, 11

"Look I know it's a pretty hard thing, but there are worse times. I am experiencing it right now and I haven't had my period or breasts yet, but don't worry."
--Danny M, 11

"Halee, 12: EVERYONE has puberty at a different age. You will get your period between the ages of 9 and 15. My mom didn't get hers until she was 15. I got mine when I was 10. Your breasts on their own should too. You will get everything in time."
--Madi : -), 12

"Alyssa, 11: Puberty is hard. Periods, they will sometimes hurt. You might get cramps. But every girl goes through it."
--Madi : -), 12

"Steps, 9: OMG. You are only 9! Puberty WILL come. But at 9 not a lot of kids start..."
--Madi : -), 12

"Hair growth and body odor."
--Anonymous, 10

"My Grandma got her period when she was 15 my mom got it when she was 11 when should I expect mine?"
--JLynn, 11

"I'm scared about my period and embarrassed to talk it about it nothing has happened except my breasts have changed in 4th grade everyone had breasts but me I felt really left out."
--Valerie, 12

"My mom Got her Period at the age of 12 and 1/2 and that is how old I am now and I am wondering should I wear a pad or a tampon?"
--JJ, 11

"Hi! Even though I'm only 10 years old, I can tell you A LOT about puberty. It's a natural thing for girls AND boys. We mostly think girls only get it, because they sprout hair, and boobs. But guys have it to. And if you have pimples...They'll go away if you use the right stuff. I'm here as an advice giver. And I'll tell you a few of my experiences too. When you start growing breasts, they usually start hurting or itching. Now, don't be obsessed with them. You have to WAIT for them to grow. Guys sprout armpit hair, and they also change voices. A period is a scary thing to experience, but it's natural. I won't go through the statistics. It would be better to ask you mom or local doctor about it. Friends are good things to confide in. They can share their experiences, and they can tell you things you MIGHT want to know. Let me share some of MY experiences. I do not wear a bra yet, but am growing breasts. If I bump them, they hurt. And of course, I have hair. You already know where, but I'm not going to mention. Periods can happen any time to me. I'm scared, and I'm sure you are to. But, really, it's nothing to be scared of! Of course you're probably saying NO WAY! IT'S AWFUL! But, it'll happen one day. So will driving, a husband or wife (optional! ) and many other body parts. I love you all, and hope you have a great experience with all of this! Handle it well!"
--Anna, 10

"Yo dudes calm down! Lol. I got mine when I was at the movies with friends but I didn't know until I got home and I was scared but I just went and told my mom but she just says it's cool your now a lady! So don't worry I only got mine in the summer& I'm 13. So if ur under my age Dw lol You'll be fine =D xx."
--YupYup_, 13

"'Does it hurt. '--Shakira, 11. Only a little. You get a few cramps now and then, though! Hold tight! You'll get used to it!"
--D0t123, 11

"Help! Mine are smaller than everybody's in my class! You can barely notice! ANY GIRL out there HHHEEELLLPPP! I need tips! PS I know every thing but I haven't started."
--D0t123, 11

"I haven't started my period yet and almost all my friends have. They brag about it and I think something's wrong with me. I want to cry. Even my mom thinks I should have it by now. What do I do? = (."
--Jamie, 13

"All my friends have there periods and I feel so alone. They have their own inside jokes and I don't know what to do. They think something's wrong with me. Help me!"
--Hailey

"I want to cry. All my friends have their periods and they think I'm weird. My mom thinks I should've had it by now I'm really scared. Please help."
--Rachel, 13

"I'm 13 and haven't had my period. My mom got it at early 12 and my grandma at 11. All my friends have it to. I'm stressing out. Help."
--Hannah, 13

"I don't know much about puberty. Give me answers." --Evie, 11. What would you like answers to? I can try to give you answers!"
--Madi : -), 12

"The toughest part of puberty is having you period. My friends keep bugging me about it. Asking if I've had it. I just try to ignore it. It makes me feel like I need to hear up and grow up. And I still what to be a kid and hang out with my friends. It's so hard too ignore it."
--Ariell, 10

"HELP ME! I've got breasts and I am only eleven! Someone write to me now and help!"
--AMY, 11

"Puberty is not that big of a deal to tell you the truth. It may seem like a big deal when you're first starting out but you'll get use to it. After a while you'll be happy with the new things that have changed."
--Brittany

"Hey it's me again! Also if anyone is interested in naruto, puberty etc. Anyways puberty may be difficult but we all have to go through it so like talk to somebody. Or if it's too awkward wit ya mom go talk to someone else. And oh yea just chill. Breathe in then out it will be over soon."
--Sakura fan, 10

"The worst thing was at first I didn't know what in the world was going on! I was terrified. But then my friend told me what was going on."
--Amanda, 10

"Jayde, 13. OMG! You might not have to! Only, like, 1/1000 need an operation for that! Don't get so worried! And if you're worried you are not starting at the same year as your friends, every1 starts at different times! I deal with the same thing! LOL!"
--D0t123, 11

"Jeanne, 11. OMG! Don't do that get a padded bra! They make them look bigger! A bigger size DOESN'T WORK! It'll look way baggy!"
--D0t123, 11

"Sydney, 11. If you want them smaller DON'T get a padded bra! They'll look even bigger! Lol!"
--D0t123, 11

"Shamane, 12, Because when we are first born we look the same. Just a little helpless baby. But as we grow, we need to have a reproduction system. So we can reproduce. MAKE BABIES! So our bodies change. Was that a good example?"
--Madi : -), 12

"Why do girls get breasts?"
--Nia, 10

"Sydney is that u from Charleston if u r Sydney I'm Meredith from school. How do u know if u r going to have big breasts r really small ones?"
--Meredith, 10

"I'd say the toughest part is outgrowing your shoes every six months."
--Julia, 13

"Thanks a bunch Amber. I just have a few more questions. 1) Should I be 100% honest when I tell my Mom? 2) It is really hard because she got her period when she was 15! And I am 11 (I am 12 in May but I like to call myself 12 because I hate it when people go "WOW! You are 12!". 3) I think I will have to grow up right away. 4) I AM WORRIED WHAT SHE WILL THINK! Will someone help me?!?!?!?! PLEASE!?!?!?" --Madi : -), 12 COME ON PEOPLE! I NEED HELP!"--Madi : -), 12. It's no big deal! When you talk to your mom she'll understand! Every girl has 1 but not at the same time, week year, etc! Be 100% honest. She'll understand you are growing up and should let you do it on your own. Unless she's overprotective. Like I'm getting my period soon but my breasts are NOT here yet! Weird, huh? like I said we all grow at different rates! Hope this helps! =p!"
--D0t123, 11

"It's embarrassing and weird but I normally play soccer or my electric bass guitar to get my mind off of it."
--Eamon, 12

"Well there are a lot of tough parts of going through puberty. What hate is how sometimes you can get into anger problems with your friends just because of hormones. Sometimes you just have to deal with it. It's just apart of growing up, no matter what."
--Abby, 11

"Can anyone predict when I will get my period? Discharge-When I really started noticing it was April of last year maybe a little before about March? Breast-Since the same time (Left is much larger than right! ). Hair-Started shaving 2 weeks ago on legs, no underarm hair, some pubic hair for about 2-3 months maybe a little longer. Age-11 (mom started...At age like 13 or 14 I think. Not sure though)."
--Anonymous

"I have tender breasts. What do I do?"--Alexas, 10. It's natural! All girls feel that in puberty! 1 of mine is like that and the other is sore, OUCH! Some girls have really sore breasts so hope for the better!"
--Anonymous

"'How come we have puberty? '--Shamane, 12. Here is 1 part! Why do we even need breasts, anyway? Growing breasts are a major part of puberty because it means your reproductive system is starting to work. Just like getting your period is meant to allow you to someday have a baby, a girl's breasts are meant to make milk that the baby will need to survive. I'll write on the period soon!"
--D0t123, 11

"I don't know what to do. My voice has changed, and I have been needing bigger bras, and I have weird feelings about boys. What should I do?" --NONAME!, 11. That's all natural! Some girls have a change in voice!"
--D0t123, 11

"The toughest part is definitely my friends. All of them except me and one other of my friends have had it and they have their own inside jokes and everything. Help me!"
--Jen, 13

"Not that I want breasts, I want to know if there's something wrong with me. I'm eleven and I don't have any breasts. All my friends (who are my age) have them. Is something wrong with me?"
--Taylor, 11

"Ok I have had armpit hair since I was in third grade, pubic hair in fourth grade, and breasts in fifth grade, I am now in sixth grade and still haven't started. Is something wrong with me? should I see a doctor? help?"
--Hayden, 12

"I haven't had my period but I have small breasts I have hair down there and on my armpits I shave my legs I get discharge and I'm 13! All my friends have it please help me!"
--Jen, 13

"I never got my period does it mean I won't get it. I really, really, really want my breasts to get big and get my healthy period."
--Halee, 12

"I skipped one grade, so all of my friends and classmates matured before me. I was always waiting for the day I would fit in. I was worried after listening to what they told me. Sometimes, I felt left out when they compared period deterrent strategies and bra sizes, but in the long run, it all worked out. One day, I know that we will al be older and probably close to the same time in the maturation process. ` (o. O) `."
--Kelly, 12

"I would have to say my period I have a story about my experiences. I was with a boy and I was wearing blue jeans and I got my period and I said I have to go home and he said why and he looked down and said ok."
--Ashlee

"I am afraid to start my puberty because my mom says it hurts."
--Alyssa, 11

"I am afraid of getting my period."
--Shawna, 10

"My mum saw me naked for the first time since I started puberty when I came out of the shower last week even though she knew I had a